Serious (Advice) Someone Please Help Make sense of this....

Started by shahidah, Mar 7, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. shahidah
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    Mar 7, 2017
    :emoji_triumph:Why do guys act dumb when u ask them a straightforward question....

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    for example...
    you ask them
    "who is this b---- that's been calling u every night"
    and he replies...
    "idk that girl"

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    you can ask them the simplest of questions and they respond as if u asked a question on physics or some s--- that really needs some explanation like...

    girl: "why you didn't call me when you got home..?

    boy: "I got caught up"

    WTF does that even mean?!?!!!?!

    someone help cause this don't make no sense??



    also ... How do u expect females to respond in these types of situations?
     
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  2. Ordinary Joel
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    Mar 8, 2017
    I'm not sure

    :kapppa:
     
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  3. Loyalty
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    Mar 8, 2017
    Sounds like he's hiding something or just doesn't want you to be an important part of his life

    dump his a---, you're above that ish
     
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    Mar 8, 2017
    This exactly. He's either hiding something or doesn't care enough.
     
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    Where's Ja Rule?
     
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    pop

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    Because we are the best liars in the world.
     
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  7. shahidah
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    Mar 9, 2017
    that's exactly what I'll do ...

    if a guy tells me some dumb ish like this he won't be my man for much longr :drakelaugh:
     
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  8. shahidah
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    would u think a female was crazy if she smacked the guy upside the head ..(hoping to knock. Some sense into him?
     
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  9. shahidah
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    Mar 9, 2017
    LMAO only the guys who are good with words can finnese their way out of those situations
     
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    Dude sounds like worst liar OAT. Nothing you can really do about it other than leaving him.
     
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  11. shahidah
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    but would u think a female gives up too easy in relationships if leaving was her response to these situations?


    @Rick James @Loyalty @tchortsunk @Ordinary Joel @Enigma @Papa Buff
     
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  12. Poohdini
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    I don't think so. He's sending you off when you're asking why a girl is calling his phone every night. Does he work with her? Close friends? Are they related?

    Why do you wanna stay with him if he's playing stupid and says he doesn't know her?
     
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  13. shahidah
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    Mar 9, 2017
    i think females have a fear of being lonely which is Y they would stay with someone who would lie like that...

    I'm not gon lie when i was in relationships with guys that i really liked it was hard to leave cause u think "i won't find anybody better" or find anyone soon. Plus i never wanted to get into relationships where it was just casual sex cause then the guys act like they're the only one u supposed to b having sex with..if not then they wanna call u a hoe and act like u not worthy of being talked to.

    like u can't win as a female....when it comes to guys to get JUST sex out of them u hav to make them feel special like they the only ones but when it comes to guys they have the expectation that all they hav to do is show a little bit of interest in u ...to get just sex from u
     
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  14. shahidah
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    that just reminded me of the time my ex told me the naked pics in his phone were from his cousin and she sent them to him cause she wanted to know if she looked good or na to send to her boo

    :srsguy:



    good times... Good times.......
     
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    :lmaooo:
     
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  16. Poohdini
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    You might not have somebody for awhile but it's better than being lied to.

    I hear you on the double standards. Personally if I'm just hooking up with a girl no strings I don't expect them to make me feel special or to just be with me. I definitely wanna know if there's other guys but I'm not that petty to make a big deal out of it, kinda comes with the territory unless it's something you agree about beforehand.
     
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    Mar 9, 2017
    a good d-ck sucking
     
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    b----..is u dumb
     
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  19. shahidah
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    okay okay ....yes I WAS young and dumb.....but mostly in love

    when the person u in love with tells u something its rare that u question it ...plus u don't wanna rock the boat so its easier to ignore it.
     
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    TimmyT I bet you say that to all the wabbits

    Mar 9, 2017
    nice alliyah reference

    think you slick, huh shahidah :emoji_wink:
     
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