Mar 9, 2017 Dude isnt slick all. If he wanted to really hid something, speaking normally would cause more suspicion because they are playing it off cool From a guy standpoint nothing is wrong with giving a girl a mysterious feel about you, but when its to the point where distrust erupts then no point of being with them. In summary, ur 2fine 4 ur time to be wasted
Mar 9, 2017 It depends.... have you brought the issue up to him? Have you guys talked about it? If so was he willing to work on it? If you've talked to him and he simply doesn't acknowledge the issue or has told you he'll work on it but there's no improvement then no.
Mar 9, 2017 Depends how serious you guys are... Cause if some chick I'm barely talking to asks me "Who is this b----?" I'm just gonna assume she's psycho and do the exact thing in your OP when I stop talking to her... say "Sorry I was busy" Sounds like you are getting curved
Mar 9, 2017 Does he consider it serious though? Sometimes it's one-sided If it is a real relationship or becoming one... it sounds like he's being a d-ck He's not interested anymore
Mar 9, 2017 @shahidah I'm not trying to be mean. Typically if a guy is interested in dating a girl he will talk to her and make time to talk to her... it's really that simple. If he's not interested he's not gonna respond. Maybe late at night when he's bored or something but if he's genuinely into you, he will reply Some guys just go thru the motions without that emotional part it's just how we are
Mar 9, 2017 im gonna ask...how would this apply to a long distance relationship? is it different or the same?
Mar 9, 2017 listen man i only read up to this point in the thread, but the way he's responding he's 1) being shady and 2) isn't concerned enough to weigh your feelings at all in this and to be honest, we don't change. if you're a type of way, maybe a different girl can inspire you to be different, but usually we are the way we are. i would dip if i were you. he's acting dumb because it's technically not lying then lol
Mar 9, 2017 Typically that's a whole different ball park especially if you've never met If a guy is dedicating himself to a girl for a long distance thing it's way more emotional based
Mar 9, 2017 and the only reason i'd want to know is just because of STIs. if i'm not using protection and 3 other dudes are hitting it at the same time, then i'd want to know (and either switch to protection, or dip entirely).
Mar 9, 2017 Only reading OP and not rest of thread. But i think it's cause guys don't care about texts and s--- like that for the most part. Like yeah, there are times when you want to text and speak to your significant other or sex buddy, but think of how often you text your girl/guy friends just to chat. Like for me, it's rare that i'll send a text to a mate like "hey man whats up how you been, whatchu do today?" like I think for the most part we all just save that s--- for real interactions with each other. So when dudes say things like "i was busy" or "i got caught up" to me that's honestly some s--- like, "i worked all day and played a video game for a few hours, but i want you to think of me as a perfect high-test alpha so i was just busy lol" Like for me personally, there are just times where I'll see a message, read it but then have absolutely no motivation to respond because i know it's going to be a back and forth afterwards and I don't want to focus on conversing through text for an hour, while i'm doing stuff.
Mar 9, 2017 this is all true, but the issue is he's lying about other females too. so if he was just saying things like "i got caught up", yeah i've been in the exact situation coco just described and said the exact same s--- BUT the fact he's also entertaining other females while ignoring you means it's deeper than just that. you're 110% being cheated on.
Mar 9, 2017 Yeah not too sure on that side of the situation. I find that as soon as I find interest in a girl/begin talking more and getting closer, some random female from years ago will appear out of the blue like "hey man i thot u were hot in highschool hmu for birthday sex lol!" and everytime i'm just like "u fucken come out from underneath your rock, right f---ing now?" i don't know how women do it, but they manage it.
Mar 9, 2017 smh truer words have never been written bro @Poohdini prospects double soon as you catch a vibe you want to keep, but maybe because you're actively building the roster leading up to that point since you're putting yourself out there. and then once you catch a vibe, the bench players start hurting for the attention.
Mar 9, 2017 Lmao yessss chicks have a sense on when a dude is thinking about getting with girl.. it inititates some strange hormone reaction where they feel the need to claim you real quick before the other chick does
Mar 9, 2017 If you want chick A.... start hanging out with chick B Chick A will be yours by the end of the week Guaranteed
Mar 9, 2017 I think it's purely jealousy... every girl wants to be the hottest in the room They definitely size each other up on some alpha b---- s---
