Feb 20, 2015 I'm curious as to which method you guys think is best. Which method do YOU guys use? If there's one thing I've learned in my interactions with females, it's that many of them are just too nice to say "no" to guys they aren't interested in. Turning someone down face to face isn't easy--this is especially true for females--because more often than not girls are much more nicer than guys. They can't stand to see those sad puppy dog eyes when they reject you. So instead, they'll give you their phone number (or a fake one) and get your hopes up, knowing full well they have no intention of responding to your texts and or calls. A classic example of how girls lead guys on. Now if a guy is pestering a woman, blowing up her phone with tons of text messages, or he won't take "no" for an answer, I can understand a woman giving a guy a fake phone number if she feels threatened or uncomfortable. But every guy doesn't do this and yet women will still give their phone numbers to guys they know they aren't going to respond to and all the guys are doing is trying to get to know a girl they have a crush on. Girls are confusing creatures. It's like they don't understand that when you're a guy a you have to do all the work. A guy has to 1) confidently approach and talk to the girl 2) try to make yourself stand-out from the other guys 3) work up your courage to ask the girl for her phone number or ask her out to lunch. And for the most part, all girls have to do is simply pick and choose which guys they want to spend their time with, and many of them can't even be straight up enough with a guy to let them know she's not interested. Ridiculous! This is why I think giving a girl your number MIGHT be a better method. I think handing out a business card is a good idea--have any of you tried this? Walk up to a girl, smile, introduce yourself and say I'd love to take you to lunch one day, hand her the card and just walk away. By doing this, you put the ball in HER court. If she never calls, no biggie. But at least my hopes aren't up like they are when I receive a phone number and then a couple days later never get a response to my texts. On the other hand, I've been told that giving your phone number to a girl is not a good idea because you want to "take charge". Thoughts?
Feb 20, 2015 didn't read any of that but the only time I give my phone number is if they ask, otherwise I don't see why you wouldn't be the one getting her number
Feb 20, 2015 I always get her number, that way I could start the conversation with ease; opposed to waiting for them
Feb 20, 2015 1. Have a legitimate reason why you need to contact her. Make plans. Tell her you want to get drinks sometime. Invite her to a party. Exchanging information now makes sense. Don't just randomly ask for her number. That's boring and creepy. 2. Ask for the best way to get a hold of her. Literally say "What's the best way to get a hold of you?". Maybe it's a number, maybe it's Facebook, maybe it's Snapchat. Let her decide. She'll almost always say "Oh, here's my number".
Feb 20, 2015 Because I don't like for a girl to give me her number and then never respond to my texts or calls If this has never happened to you, consider yourself one of the lucky ones Getting a girls phone number doesn't mean s---. Girls are flakey as h---
Feb 20, 2015 this is also true. lol I'm sure giving a girl your number and having them text you is a better feeling
Feb 20, 2015 offer to give her a makeover then when you're braiding her hair (make sure you're both standing) as she doesn't notice you pressing against her from behind while hiking her skirt up you donkey punch her and she has no idea that s--- is in her a--- for a good ten-fifteen seconds works every time
Feb 22, 2015 Getting numbers isn't as important as it used to be. Just friend request them on facebook lol.
Feb 22, 2015 When mans learn how to threat womens as regular persons instead of aliens i swear that even the most awkard nerd with rimmed glasses will get p----
