Been together 6 years Now it's over.. What to do now

Started by killakush, Mar 15, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. attila
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    Mar 15, 2015
    Be like since we are over I'm moving out of the house, you are going to have to pull your own weight around here, I feel depressed every time just looking at you or walk by me. I no longer feel the need to be here and being tormented as you tease me, I think it's best to go our separate ways, maybe you can ask the Mexican to help pay your bills around here, cause I'm moving on and finding my own place.


    See if she will leave with you now.
     
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  2. killakush
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    Mar 15, 2015
    Holy s--- did bot just make a valid point?
     
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  3. lilgriffey84
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    Act like you don't give a f---. People want what they cant have. Give the space and time. Best piece of advice that I got from someone is find as many anchors as you can. People think of anchors as a bad thing but sometimes you need an anchor to keep you in place instead of drifting off. Go out and do stuff don't sulk around and mope all day. Pick up some hobbies do some s---.
     
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  4. CJ Poe
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    CJ Poe The Dark Vegan

    Mar 16, 2015
    I've been there man.. it gets easier over time.. It's almost like a "death" it stays with you and your soul for a long time.. in a sense, it is a "loss" but over time you move forward.. love is a misguided feeling any way.. you'll learn your lesson, and get stronger.. just remember.. those six years, cherish it..because even though it's the end, she was still a blessing.
     
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  5. Disclosure
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    Disclosure R&B Stan

    Mar 16, 2015
    I'm speechless...
     
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  6. CSW
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    Mar 16, 2015
    I vowed never to touch pof just cuz of the name lol, it was like a principles thing idk. i actually met my gf on okc though, solid ten and we're working on our fifth year together

    also, when someone says they want to see other people, it usually means they already are

    all the luck in the world bro
     
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  7. Disclosure
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    you know what to do....
     
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  8. CSW
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    lol more pics, are you sure? cuz posting them went over so well before... nah I wouldn't want nicki any more jelly than necessary
     
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  9. CSW
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    if I have an attitude about her it's really not because of anything other than the fact that I'm not sure how I feel about my biggest success being something so fragile

    then again what isn't fragile in this world
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  10. M Solo
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    M Solo Fresh Outta London

    Mar 16, 2015

    I feel you man I've been with my girl for eight years and the last year has been rocky. Having something that long end is a daunting thought but f--- what can you really do? Whatever you do in life or whatever your passion is focus on that s--- 110% and become as successful as possible. If you do that two things are certain. You'll meet somebody new that will interest you and your ex will come crawling back. Just move on and and focus on you.

    Side Note- If you have to live with her though because of financial issues make sure you guys use her new boyfriend to your advantage. Landscaping, washing your vehicles, cooking you burritos... her new BF and 10 of his cousins could and should be doing a lot of hard labor for you for a ten cents an hour. I'm dead serious when I say you should ask her if he'll do all of that for you.
     
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  11. lil uzi vert stan
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    Mar 16, 2015
    @killakush if you live in Maine, go to PT's. You live near Portland?
     
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  12. killakush
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    I am actually talking to a chick from pof I'm going to f--- her brains out this weekend..
     
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  13. killakush
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    No bangor area
     
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  14. lil uzi vert stan
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    Yikes, move south bruh. Brunswick at least
     
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  15. killakush
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    I've only been up here a year, what's down there?
     
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    ^weed
     
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  17. lil uzi vert stan
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    Well, for one thing people. Portland is obviously more fun, better economy, both driven by tourist s--- and also, more importantly, in towns like Bath there are working class gigs because of the defense industry
     
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    I've actually never had a one night stand. I went right from my high school gf (to two six month relationships I'd like to forget) to my ex to my fiance lol
     
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  19. killakush
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    Might sound crazy given my situation.. But its more than a hook up.. Like I said near the end it was a open relationship so I've been talking to this chick for weeks & we both know something is there.. It's funny cause like an hour after I made this thread me & the ex had a talk.. We both agreed we've been basically just friends for about a year now.. The only difference is the title.. Its been a long time coming.. It's whatever it still sucks & hurts.. But I've had time to grief cause I basically knew it was over in January when this s--- first started.. I was just in denial & trying to hold on to what I've known for so long.. Only thing we gotta figure out now is who gets custody of the dog..lol
     
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  20. DJ Lithium
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    DJ Lithium "The Cool Cats" - The Lith-Meister

    Mar 17, 2015
    heres my story. its about how i dont let a woman beat me.

    me and my wife have been having troubles in our relationship for a while now. not going to go into all the details but i have been wanting a divorce for a while.

    anyways on monday night when kendricks album leaked i couldnt wait to listen to it. i was the good guy and waited till my kids were all tucked away in bed before listening to it. so as to not take away my fatherly responsibilities.

    anyways once they were in bed i got right into TPAB. all 70 something minutes of it. according to my wife, taking a little bit over an hour of time out equates to me not spending any time with her. anyways she went f---ing mental at me for listening to TPAB.

    So long story short i was no no no b---- that aint fair, i want a divorce. no b---- takes me away from my music.

    im going for custody of my children because the b---- aint mentally stable and is an unfit mother.

    anyways im single now WOOHOO! time for a fresh p----. Tinder here i come!

    :king:
     
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