Mar 4, 2017 it's not that it's literally just a personal thing with me, and how comfortable i am with intimacy don't think most gay men have such qualms about casual sex lol
Mar 4, 2017 this is literally the mind making excuses and rationalising for why you cant get p---- im floored
Mar 5, 2017 That's the thing though -- it can be both meaningless/almost banal or powerful/emotional depending on who it's with and what the occasion is. The problem is OP is assuming his views on sex are The Right Views On Sex when it's entirely circumstantial. It varies from person to person and situation to situation.
Mar 5, 2017 If you ever have sex you'll stop thinking like this. Because you've had no interaction with a vagina before you've turned it into this mythical creature with deeper meaning due to the fact it's so hard for you to get it.
Mar 5, 2017 I don't assume my views are "right". My female friends share the same view I have or at least agree with them. My n----s make fun of me for it. It just is what it is I'm different and that's ok. I dont want to be the middle aged n----- at the bar still tryna get cheeks
Mar 10, 2017 You're just making excuses such as "i'll wait till i have feelings for someone" "I gotta do it with the right one" Those are f---in excuses in your subconcious. You just don't wanna bother to go out there and have sex, either you have anxiety and scared to talk to people or you don't care at all because you're at home jerking it 3 times a day.
Mar 12, 2017 Casual sex is great if you are single. Nothing wrong with getting a nut without the headache of a relationship.
Mar 14, 2017 tfw op makes a thread so stupid a simple no response becomes my most liked post on this site smfh
Mar 14, 2017 Jesus christ. If you blame failed relationships on casual sex, you're the problem. Consenting adults don't need hand holding. Sex doesn't ruin anything, your neediness does. Don't use "old soul" as an excuse for your own insecurities and ignorant views. Casual sex isn't new *gasp*. Holy h--- you sound needy and inexperienced. Experience will teach you a lot. First step, stop worrying so f---ing much.
Mar 15, 2017 I agree with the OP. Now that doesn't mean I haven't had one night stands but if I do it's usually with someone I've met before and they're not very common. I usually only have sex with people after I've known them a while and have intentions of it going somewhere besides that night.
Mar 16, 2017 Casual sex is perfectly fine imo. I think this idea that sex is meant to be sacred is what pushes a lot of stereotypes and labels -- especially for women. If you want to go and f--- a bunch of people, be my guest. The only thing I'm going to tell you is don't be stupid, protect yourself.
