Do you have/want childeren?

Started by Michael Myers, May 13, 2021, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Ricky
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    May 24, 2021
    Actually, you put me in there in the first place ;*
     
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  2. Markdis
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    May 28, 2021
    I have a one year old daughter. Recently we had a suspicion that my wife is pregnant again and I must admit it was scary. Turned out to be a false alarm. Our little monkey just started to sleep more or less good, so if i imagine having again those sleepless nights... no... its too early. Now we are checking decent birth control methods. I am not saying i don't want to have kids anymore, it is just a bit too early. And yep, the moment when you hear your baby's first cry is the best and the most emotional thing you can ever imagine, still remember every moment of that special day..
     
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  3. 1999
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    May 28, 2021
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  4. Trackz
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    May 31, 2021
    Yes sir.
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  5. icecube
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    Jun 1, 2021
    Aw, man she's beautiful! Congratulations!

    What date was she born on? My birthday is the 17th May so it must've been around then based on your first post?
     
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  6. Translucent
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    Jun 1, 2021
    No kids. Don't want them
     
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    It's funny. I'm on the 20th and I was hoping she would not be born on my birthday otherwise my birthday would definitely become irrelevant lol.

    But she popped out on the 24th, so i'm cool with that.
     
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  8. icecube
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    Jun 1, 2021
    And no excuse you could ever forget! By the time you get over the birthday hangover it'll be hers!
     
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  9. rapmusik
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    Jun 1, 2021
    it's hard honestly. For the longest I thought I did. but as more time passes and there's still so much I haven't done yet, I get anxiety thinking about the idea. not that I think having a kid would f--- my life up or shatter my 'dreams' and ambitions, I just know that for myself, I have a really hard time juggling things reasonably. I'd have to be totally financially stable, and willing/capable to give my all to this child. Major props to those who are able to balance everything and still provide a wonderful life for their children. I think you're incredible. I just don't think I'm that person yet.

    TL;DR yes and no.
     
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    Jun 1, 2021
    as for not doing things yet, I took my son everywhere. he's been to more concerts than any 6 year old i know. I took him to see childish gambino, jay electronica and stalley.

    Sure there might be some things you don't accomplish solo, but i've done the same things I would do with or without my son and i'll treat my daughter the same way.

    I'm actually jealous of my son actually for getting to meet one of my favorite rappers at such a young age lol.
     
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  11. Detroit24
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    Jun 1, 2021
    agree, definitely sacrifice is needed in order to be a good parent. That means sacrificing your wants and needs...if you able to juggle everything than kudos to you....that’s tough...but possible with the right partner and fam
     
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    Jun 2, 2021
    Very well said
     
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    Jun 2, 2021
    I got 5

    3 girls, 2 boys

    my oldest daughters are twins
     
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