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Ever Cheated?

Started by rapmusik, May 4, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Juney Dark
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    May 4, 2015
    True, but there's been other occasions with other women through the years..lol but I guess this incident didn't count..lol
     
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  2. rapmusik
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    May 4, 2015
    just curious. what compels someone to cheat? only asking you cuz you're implying you've done it lol. just falling out of "love" with who you're with? the "rush" of cheating?
     
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    May 4, 2015
    I knew her sister first. We were good friends in high school.
    My gf was at summer camp (counselor) and me and her sister were hanging out.
    Thinking with my d-ck and lack of self control.
     
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  4. Juney Dark
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    Naw, not in my position... I never cheated, unless the women cheated on me. That was my reason.. I know two wrongs, don't make a right, but I felt I needed some kind of revenge. I have a hard time trusting women these days, that's why it's mostly casual encounters and that's it.. I recently just got into a relationship a few months ago, I'll see what happens..lol
     
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  5. aquaberryares
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    aquaberryares one time I made sex

    May 4, 2015
    Cheating isnt a logical/thought out decision most of the time. It's our caveman instincts kicking in. Alcohol has a pretty significant role as well.
    Whenever a dude says "I would never cheat on any girl, id rather break up with them" they're either young, naive, or lying. :kanye3:i said it.
     
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  6. Deadpool
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    May 4, 2015
    should we say," yea i might, depending on the situation" or something like that? serious question
     
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    I fall into the young category I suppose :jordan:
     
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  8. aquaberryares
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    aquaberryares one time I made sex

    May 4, 2015
    Nah you shouldnt say it, just know it. :khaled2:

    Goes hand in hand with the naive category tbh
     
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  9. Disclosure
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    I was deadass about to post this.

    Our brains are primitive and respond to hormones and instinct. Our bodies will tell us to slut while society tells us to be monogamous. Yes there are exceptions, but overpowering your biology is hard chit. Once you see the real world you'll realize pretty much everyone cheats (not just youngens I'm talking married/taken men and women in their 40s).

    Western society with its tv media, social networking/dating websites, promiscuous culture, alcohol mixed etc makes it all worse, it's just one big clusterfuck that drives us all to slut it up.

    Shout outs to the people who get offers constantly and genuinely don't cheat though, finding good people is hard.
     
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  11. Cyreides
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    May 5, 2015
    Nope. Never cheated, never will cheat. Ain't about that s--- tbh and I'd instantly leave anyone that ever cheated on me. If you ain't got respect enough for our relationship then you don't need to be in one with me, simple as that:camby:
     
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  12. Packman
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    May 5, 2015
    People aren't meant to be monogamous, simply put.

    But to those that find a way..

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    May 5, 2015
    No sins as long as there’s permission, and deception is the only felony
     
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  14. Michael Myers
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    May 5, 2015
    Nope, never. There was a time where I almost did but I did the right thing and broke up first. Not saying I will never do it because like @JCinator said, you can get into a situation where you do it, but I'm pretty sure I will not
     
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  15. Final
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    May 5, 2015
    yea...





    yea i cheated myself out of ever making threads again :sad1:
     
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    May 5, 2015
    My last girlfriend cheated on me so I f----- her friend :shaq:

    PS I love that smiley
     
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  18. DKC
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    May 5, 2015
    Been cheated on, never cheated. There were a few times where I probably could have cheated on the girl who cheated on me (first GF, got back with her like a dumbass), but I didn't take them. I kinda wished I had at some points when I was pissed at her but now that all that anger at the situation is gone, I'm really glad I didn't.

    For people talking about our caveman instinct kicking in: I agree with you to the extent that it's our caveman brain telling us to f--- a woman who we aren't in a relationship with because we're wired to reproduce and carry on our species. But that's an absolute bs excuse for cheating on someone. We have brains developed far beyond that. I'm not saying we can't f--- up in the heat of the moment, but if you're not stronger than your caveman instinct, you probably shouldn't be in a relationship.
     
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    May 5, 2015
    In 11th grade my gf cheated on me with another dude that didn't know (we're mates now) and it f---ing s----d. Putting someone in the same spot that I was in would be a terrible thing to do and I'd never do it myself.
     
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