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Started by Jaba24, Feb 27, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

    Feb 27, 2015
    Okay so ive been talking to this girl for a few weeks.

    We started talking and went on a date, we kissed/made out etc. We ended up taking a break and she daterd someone else. She said i was too clingy.

    So recently we started talking again and 2 days ago i went and visited her at work on her break. We kissed.

    She says she wants to take things slow which is fine. But see yesterday she told me she was hanging out with a guy who she had dated before but she was coming to visit me at work with him. So I said "you guys are just friends right" then i went to work and when she came through my line (Cashier) she barely said anything to me.. then i texted her and apologized for acting jealous and asked if she could forgive me and she said "idk this is the second time youve done something i dont like".

    So we are supposed to go out tomorrow (Saturday) and today i asked if we still were and she said "idk"

    We work together tonight.. Should I ask her why she is ignoring me rn? Should i apologize in person too? Should I Call her rn before work?
     
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  2. RetiredAccount
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    RetiredAccount Big Time Stuntin Like My Daddy

    Feb 27, 2015
    Too clingy bruh
     
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  3. Oldboy
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    Feb 27, 2015
    brah why try to f--- a girl who look at you as plan b

    find someone else mate
     
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  4. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

    Feb 27, 2015
    cus i really like her. so please answer and help

    @Koolo
     
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  5. Oldboy
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    Feb 27, 2015
    why did you even apologize lol
     
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  6. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    Feb 27, 2015
    Even though you really like her, find someone else man. If you being concerned about her and her guy friend pisses her off, she ain't worth it. You shouldn't have to apologize for being you.
     
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  7. RetiredAccount
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    RetiredAccount Big Time Stuntin Like My Daddy

    Feb 27, 2015
    Don't talk to her till work. Just say I'm sorry about the other day, can I call you after work.
     
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  8. Kold
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    Feb 27, 2015
    1. Don't be too clingy in the future.
    2. Move on. She don't care enough about you.
     
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  9. Mikey
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    Feb 27, 2015
    So she said you were too clingy. Then u go visit on her break from work :snoop:
     
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  10. mdemaz
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    mdemaz Molasses

    Feb 27, 2015
    i know how you feel man the old cold shoulder thing usually is a sign that its a lost cause

    you should forget about her before you get obsessed like i did
     
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  11. Piiizzy
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    Feb 27, 2015
    even though you really like about her, think about the effort she puts compared to your effort.
    is it remotely close?

    Dont waste your time If you know it is not well spent. Also dont make it seem you have nothing else to do besides be with her, clingynesss is for pets and teddy bears

    she also has another man, maybe you wanna be a side n----- but thats up to you
     
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  12. Worm
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    Feb 27, 2015
    lol don't ever apologize. Just act like you don't give a s---. Don't text her back, don't send multiple texts, and don't call. Right now she's dominating you, if you want the power back stop talking to her. If she still wants to go out tomorrow she'll call you. If she doesn't, then f--- it.
     
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  13. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

    Feb 27, 2015
    but i really like her and dont want her to not like me anymore? any advice for that

    and she doesnt have another man, she broke up with him and hates him tbh
     
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  14. LasiK
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    LasiK d-mn fine coffee

    Feb 27, 2015
    I hate to say it, but yeah, she thinks you're a lil b----. Act cool like you don't care. Maybe hang with your friends and ignore her back. It can be tough when you're super into a girl though, I think we've all been there.

    I'm glad me and my b sympatico
    stable relationships >>>> juvenile love type s---
     
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  15. Piiizzy
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    then take your time dont rush things
     
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  16. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

    Feb 27, 2015
    SHe wanted me too
     
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  17. Jaba24
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    Jaba24 Merry Christmas!

    Feb 27, 2015
    And how would i get her to stoo ignoring/being mad at me?!
    and when will this "fight" end
     
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  18. Cruz
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    Feb 27, 2015
    You have to change your ways and be the a------ she wants you to be. I understand you like her a lot but you're doing too much, ignore her and distance yourself from her the same way she's doing you. See how she reacts to the same treatment, If she reaches out after you do this, she likes you if not move on b.
     
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  19. Mikey
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    Feb 27, 2015
    As others have said just ignore her & don't apologise again.
     
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  20. Lil Wayne
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    Feb 27, 2015
    You're 24, you should've learned how women work a long time ago, come on now.
     
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