Feb 11, 2018 I´m honestly curious if the people saying yes were like ´oh my bf broke up with me I wanna k--- myself now´ or actually suffered from severe depression, had no hope and REALLY thought about killing themselves. If it´s the latter than that´s pretty messed up tbh
Feb 11, 2018 My post was mostly a joke and I know I don't post srious s--- on here ever but when I was at my lowest yeah I seriously considered it. When you struggling to get by and everyone around you either leaving or dying, not just the person your with but parents, friends etc., it's a f----- up feeling. You feel stuck. You look forward to sleeping just to get away from the s--- and when you can't sleep it's h---. It's not that I wanted to die it's more just I don't want to be alive anymore, you know? and I always thought people talking about their problems to others online was childish but I'm passed that so yeah there's your answer
Feb 11, 2018 My post wasn't really directed at you just that like almost everyone ITT said yes which made me wonder if everyone actually had that feeling (which is messed up) or most people are just joking or saying it when something just bothers them. But yeah imo the childish thing on here is people saying 'kys'. I know lots of posters I like say it as well but I honestly think it's hypocritical to say s--- like that but act sensitive on other subjects.
Feb 11, 2018 Nah I know there's a lot of posters on here that like to share their life story and think their problems are a lot bigger than they really are
Feb 11, 2018 True but I also think some of them are like 16 and I don't think we should be too harsh on them.. mostly if you're older and face real 'issues' you realize those teenage things were kinda lame (except for actual problems like loosing people etc of course)
Feb 11, 2018 Yeah I think just by nature these internet communities like this are filled with middle class kids wand there's nothing wrong with that but looking from the outside in its just kind of annoying seeing them b---- about their problems. It's not even bad on here but when I was doing the youtube s--- there were so many angsty teens that would diagnose themselves with depression because of stupid s--- like you suggested and I dont think it's right to call them out for it cause to them maybe a break up or their fish dying is a huge deal. Idk man
Feb 11, 2018 I agree. People bitching about small problems seems kinda disrespectful to people that are really depressed, but some people are just more sensitive so they might actually feel terrible about something relatively small.
Feb 11, 2018 Yes. I've been unhappy my entire life, since before I understood what depression was. The only thing I was ever content and sure of was my relationship with my wife, and I recently ended that after 12 years because I managed to sour it for myself. Kind of drifting now trying to decide what to do.
Feb 11, 2018 the worst thing someone could do is make someone feel like they have no right to feel bad about what they feel bad about. it's not like they are choosing to feel like s--- over something. when you make them feel like they are just "bitching" it just makes everything worse and then they tend to keep future issues to themselves. then it bottles up and we all know that's not good for anyone. not saying you're doing that here obviously. because like you said, some people are more sensitive. something "small" to you might be huge to them.
Feb 11, 2018 Oh yeah I agree with this. I just used that term to put it into perspective in general, its different for everyone. I meant to say that there is a difference between seeing literally no way out of a depression/having no good things to hold on to than just going through a bad time because of some experience (which is relatively small) It also depends of course... if you're mentally unstable or don't have friends, family, work etc and your relationship is broken, you can feel like s--- but you have no other things to hold onto either. Which could be a final straw. If your life is good and after the breakup (even if you still feel like crap) you got plenty of things that can distract you/help you go through it.. you can handle it easier. So whatever you lost/experienced, a lot depends on what things you do have/can look forward which makes it easy or hard to get over it.
Feb 11, 2018 One time I liked a girl at my work & I told people about it, & they told me that she liked another employee, I kind of had an idea on who the employee was, so I texted him & I said “can you be blatantly honest with me” do you & what’s her face have a thing for each other & he said “no, we’re just real good friends”, (obviously he isn’t gonna tell me)come to find out several weeks down the road, he quit (I knew why), next thing I know he is dropping off medicine for her cause she caught his flu, so I knew it, & days like valentines came around “seeing love hearts on their doors “Love is all you need”, I wanted to f---ing die I thought it was kind of f----- she went with him and not me, I kind of felt horrible at that point, to a certain extent of wanting to hang myself & wanted to ask her why, but I let it just go. Now he shows up every once in awhile in the store to have lunch with her, so I try to not even acknowledge them.
