Serious How do you break up with someone that you still love?

Started by Mudkip, May 15, 2022, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Mudkip
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    Mudkip RIP 3PAC

    May 15, 2022
    @LifeSXN I need help

    Maybe you can share your experiences / what went wrong in your relationships
     
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  2. poop dogg
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    poop dogg daddy

    May 15, 2022
    Open up your whats app say i f----- your best friend and then throw away your phone
     
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  3. Mudkip
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    Mudkip RIP 3PAC

    May 15, 2022
    Anyone else?
     
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  4. LasiK
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    LasiK RETIRED

    May 15, 2022
    Just do it. It's not going to be easy, you'll both probably be emotional, but treat it like a bandaid.
     
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  5. BIGFOOT
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    BIGFOOT More than a myth

    May 15, 2022
    Why you wanna break up? What’s the backstory like?
     
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  6. Skuxgod Is An Awesome God
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    Here we go again, Is it the same girl you lost your virginity to
     
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  7. Marsh
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    Marsh Running Up That Hill

    May 15, 2022
    f--- her mother. She will get the message.
     
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  8. Inanna
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    May 15, 2022
    I just went through this, my relationship was very toxic. We had a love hate thing going on. Finally we just agreed to call it quits. I still have love for the guy, but it was time to let go. And I think I’m way happier now

    I think you just got to know in your gut it time to let go. Maybe they’re feeling the same way. Have you talked to them yet? ? You got to rip the bandage off and do it. The more you drag it out the harder it is.
     
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  9. poop dogg
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    poop dogg daddy

    May 15, 2022
    Future just dropped his album, it got
    me thinking about how we had a future
    together. I know I said I never liked you
    but you were the one for me... you
    don't have to respond. Tell your mama l
    miss her cooking
     
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    May 15, 2022
    lol
    [​IMG]
     
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  11. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    May 16, 2022
    At the end of the day, you gotta do what’s best for you. There’s really no amount of advice that can guide you through this. It’s going to s---, you’re going to hurt for a while but just understand it’s for the best.
     
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  12. poop dogg
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    poop dogg daddy

    May 16, 2022
    Bro you love her i understand that but if you yourself admit that you have to break up that means you have to do it or you will regret it later trust me brother. But do it like that. Go to her talk about the things that went wrong in yalls relationship and make clear that you want to end the relationship. This will clear your head more. If you just break up you are going to think about it even more.
     
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  13. Ricky
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    Ricky HIP-HOP CEO ™

    May 16, 2022
    Hoodville g--- what up
     
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  14. Koolo
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    Koolo SAS IS THE NEW KANYE

    May 16, 2022
    U only live a good adult life of maybe 30 years? Otherwise ur a child or an old man. Live those 30 years the best u could and if someone is toxic to u its a huge huge waste to even throw away a day of those precious years

    get it done. Love is overrated. Remember that. Once u get someone u actually love and spend ur life with u will realize love is having a calm meal everyday with them. Its not whatever u having atm
     
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  15. joeyp363
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    May 16, 2022
    Sit back and listen to Kenny’s new album. All answers you seek are are hidden throughout the album. Listen and analyze; it’ll come to you.
     
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  16. poop dogg
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    poop dogg daddy

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    Sit back and listen to your momma cheeks clappin. All answers you seek are are hidden throughout the c-m on her lips. Listen and analyze; i‘ll come in her.
    @joeyp363
     
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  17. Supersonic
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    Supersonic C’MON YOU KNOW

    May 16, 2022
    Just be honest and say how you feel. Can never go wrong with that, even if it sounds harsh or hurting them more. Least you’ve been honest and how ever she takes it will be her way of dealing with it. But guarantee you’ll feel relieved and weight off your back after you’ve done it and over time, it will work out on both sides that you took this approach
     
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  18. Skuxgod Is An Awesome God
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    May 17, 2022
    Ask @funkymonkey

    he has a lot of experience breaking up with his imagery girl friends.
     
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  19. reservoirGod
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    reservoirGod reckless adventurer.

    May 17, 2022
    Be a man and ghost her.
     
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  20. FiveOh1
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    FiveOh1 Fallout

    May 19, 2022
    So I just went through this as well, there was no problems with the relationship and all the feelings were there. But we wanted different things out of life, for instance I wanted kids and she did not, I wanted to settle down at my home on my land I own and retire and raise cows and be able to get up and go on adventures(vacation) whenever I feel like and she wasn’t feeling that, she wanted me to move to Montana, I wanted to stay in Arkansas, So first we decided a trial break, to see if being apart was gonna make one of us decided we were willing to compromise on what we wanted. We were not, and after a couple weeks decided to fully end it.
    It wasn’t easier, and made harder by the break. So if you’re going to do it, like everyone else said just rip the bandaid off. Dragging it out only makes it worse and harder on you both.
     
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