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Started by FBG President, Jul 13, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Caslon
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    Caslon covered n moe

    Jul 13, 2017
    so you're saying if you had a son thats 23 and never had a relationship you wouldn't even talk with him about it?

    u act like a hardass but ur argument was that he shouldnt have had the conversation with him bc its uncomfortable? wut
     
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  2. Caslon
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    Caslon covered n moe

    Jul 13, 2017
    l-lewd
     
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  3. 1999
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    1999

    Jul 13, 2017
    Posting a photo of Casper on a hip hop forum to try and prove you got your life figured out is weird as f---. Grow up and take a walk or something you all too sensitive
     
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  4. SHUDEYE
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    Jul 13, 2017
    No. I wouldn't talk to him about it. Because it doesn't warrant being spoken about.
     
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  5. Caslon
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    Caslon covered n moe

    Jul 13, 2017
    you would be a s--- dad
     
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  6. SHUDEYE
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    SHUDEYE Kerser is the sickest.

    Jul 13, 2017
    Yeah, I'll take your fatherhood advice.
     
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  7. NyKill
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    Jul 13, 2017
    Really wasn’t an insult ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
     
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  8. Gimp
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    Jul 13, 2017
    im around your age and know plenty people who havent had any sereous relationships. Kind of unfair for your old man to say that to you, your at the best age in your life to be single...
     
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  9. 35mm
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    35mm

    Jul 13, 2017
    Well that escalated quickly..
     
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  10. Charlie Work
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    Charlie Work Level 5 Goblin

    Jul 13, 2017
    Sounds like you lack confidence m8. Try seeing a therapist or something.
     
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  11. SliK
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    Jul 13, 2017
    But what is talking about it even gonna do other than shatter his f---ing confidence like it obviously did?

    Do you think the dads gonna go "hey son, you should get a gf because I'm worried about you" and the kid's just going to go "oh s--- you're right the thought never crossed my mind" and just magically find a girl?

    Some s--- just doesn't need to be spoken about, I'd tell my dad to mind his f---ing business tbh
     
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  12. Vahn
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    Jul 13, 2017
    Just live your life m8, stressing out like this will get you absolutely no where. Love will happen when it does, searching for a relationship doesn't make much sense at all.
     
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  13. Caslon
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    Caslon covered n moe

    Jul 13, 2017
    I'm not talking a "hey go get a gf talk", I'm thinking more that I'd be worried about him and if theres an underlaying problem hes got about it like maybe low confidence, trust issues, maybe hes gay idk if hes just not interested thats fine too but ye u feel me? I feel he should have that talk.
     
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  14. TimmyT
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    TimmyT The Bride

    Jul 13, 2017
    apps like Tinder are for more casual use. in other words, people use it when they're bored and its not something that most people take seriously. however, there are online dating sites in which people take it more seriously and are REALLY trying to meet people. match.com is one of them. you should try it. there's nothing to be ashamed about in using that.

    graduating school and having a job and a car are all things i think women would admire. and you're only 23.....so you got plenty of time and you'll be fine dude :)
     
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  15. Michael Myers
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    Jul 13, 2017
    I'm 25 and had 3 relationships.. all of them happened at a time I was just enjoying life and not looking for a gf. Tinder etc is trash, I agree w @reservoirGod real life >>>>>>
     
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  16. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    Jul 13, 2017
    Like most have said, don't stress over it. Looking for a relationship hardly ever works -- you just gotta let it happen. Kind of curious though, you said you have 0 confidence with women, are you awkward around them? Do you tend to get nervous or at a lost for words? I ask because honestly confidence goes a long way. The ability to start and maintain a good conversation can open a lot of doors.
     
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  17. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 13, 2017
    This. At the very least avoid talking about the subjects discussed on s80 lol
     
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  18. JFK
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    JFK Bleach on my t-shirt

    Jul 13, 2017
    You're only f----- if this is your attitude. You're actually in a a great position.

    Read the book Models by Mark Manson asap and turn your outlook on life and women around.


    By the way, hopping into a LTR at 23 is the best way to miss out on life. Your dad couldn't be more wrong.
     
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  19. Poohdini
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    Jul 13, 2017
    Don't worry about what your siblings/friends are doing. Everybody has a different path.

    Honestly you're off to a good start, good hygiene, bankroll, and nice whip.

    So regarding these chicks you talk to, give me some context on how the convo goes down and when you start realizing you've been friend-zoned.
     
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  20. Poohdini
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    Yo if you're not in a serious relationship there are no uncrossable lines. That's what being 23 is about, habitually stepping over imaginary lines til you find the sweet spot.
     
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