Serious How f----- am I?

Started by FBG President, Jul 13, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Lil Squeed
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    Lil Squeed French Montana Stan

    Jul 13, 2017
    Tell them you post on Section80 and they'll wanna smash instantly
     
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  2. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 13, 2017
    @FBG President overthinking it is seriously ur biggest issue here
     
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  3. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 13, 2017
    Until they see what we talk about lol
     
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  4. Lil Squeed
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    Lil Squeed French Montana Stan

    Jul 13, 2017
    Oh and tell them you love the movie Moana
     
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  5. attila
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    Jul 13, 2017
    You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else, calling yourself ugly and thinking you are unattractive is saying that.
     
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  6. Kon
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    Kon

    Jul 13, 2017
    Tbh your situation sounds way better than mine and a lot of people I've known, you have money, a good job and an overall nice situation other than your lack of confidence.

    Other than some of the advice in this thread, only thing I can suggest is continue doing stuff to build your confidence.. That can be continuing to progress in your job/career or maybe even being friends with women and then you can gain more confidence/experience that way, and if you get along well with one of these female friends then potentially consider dating her or maybe she'll introduce you to some friends and you'll find someone to date from there. Plus if you're friends with this woman for a while and she trusts you etc, then she'll tell her friend(who you'd be dating in this hypothetical) that you're a good guy and can be trusted and all that.

    Or even if you don't feel you have the confidence to try to be friends with or approach new women right now, at least keep being social and doing stuff with your guy friends cuz they'll probably eventually introduce you to some women or you'll meet some at a party or whatever.

    In short, just continue to grow and network both in your career and as a person and you'll eventually find someone you're interested in and someone that's interested in you.
     
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  7. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 13, 2017
    Girls can spot insecurity
     
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  8. attila
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    No doubt.
     
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  9. Clive
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    Clive Mind Over Matter And Soul Before Flesh

    Jul 13, 2017
    Word, and do you really want to be with a chick constantly snapping pics for snapchat or instagram? Obviously physical attraction has to be there but look for the personality to. Don't get caught up in being single TC, play Bon Jovi it's my life and tell your dad to FECK OFF. 23 is still super young. Would you rather be married now and then potentially/most likely divorced/separated at 30?
     
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  10. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 13, 2017
    Chicks who look at their facebook, instagram or snapchat every few minutes can f--- off immediately
     
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  11. Cyreides
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    Cyreides gfy

    Jul 13, 2017
    given you don't have a gf, I'd say not very f-----
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  12. Slyk
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    Slyk God made a prophet.

    Jul 13, 2017
    ayyyyyyyyyy! this guy f---s.
     
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  13. Slyk
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    Slyk God made a prophet.

    Jul 13, 2017
    The only way you're gonna be f----- is if you start to question yourself in every scenario moving forward. There'll likely be some of that in the immediate future now that you've got a bug in your ear (don't stress if there is -- that's normal), but as long as you're able to overcome that, then you'll be solid. Don't let it permanently rock your confidence.
     
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  14. Antman
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    Antman No Cap

    Jul 13, 2017
    There's someone for everyone. You ain't meet her yet b
     
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  15. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Jul 13, 2017
    Well you're already halfway there if you're a college grad with a decent job. And except for Jay Zeus, there's no such thing as ugly people just lazy people. Go to the gym and get a better haircut or something. As for girls though, you could be the richest and best looking guy in the world but still have confidence issues. There's not much you can do about it apart from talking to girls and slowly realising they're just people like you and me and there's no reason to be intimidated by them. 23 is young. I'm 28 and I don't have a degree or a good job smh some people don't know how good they have it. Mano lost his virginity at 29 it's never too late
     
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  16. reservoirGod
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    reservoirGod reckless adventurer.

    Jul 13, 2017
    Imagine being Stitches... 22 with no education and a bunch of kids... Paid someone to turn his face into a permanent clown face... People beat him up constantly for instagram likes... Headed to jail for handing a joint to a cop with a gun and a oxycontin pill in his car... And his heart will probably give out when he is 30.


    OP is in a good spot... Probably would land himself a solid 7 who cooks and swallows and will be glad he had time to develop himself.
     
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    Sqrt Sqrt Basketball Shorts with the Gonzales Park Odor

    Jul 13, 2017
    Just be confident my man. Confidence is the key, you could be the ugliest living person in the universe yet your confidence and charisma would still attract someone. It's not too late for you, you def have some time
     
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  18. Yoda777
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    Jul 13, 2017
    we should deadass make Sex80 a thing to help people like you

    tbh it would be a great cause
     
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  19. DKC
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    DKC hank trill

    Jul 13, 2017
    Get out of the "friend zone" mindset. Remember that no one has the obligation to date you, f--- you, be your friend, or even LIKE you. Be the best you you can be, put yourself out there, if it's clear the girl isn't interested move on to someone else. Also being friends with women is sweet. Go out with the mindset of meeting people, not getting a girlfriend.
     
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    eddie313 MUSIC TO BE MURDERED BY

    Jul 13, 2017
    Powerful
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