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How to Get Over a Break Up

Started by FlawlessT, Mar 20, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. FlawlessT
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    FlawlessT

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    Now i know here are mostly though guys and i dont wanna sound like a p----, but its been almost over a month since i broke with my gf, but i cant get over it, everyday depressed, i cant and wont do anything, i just cant get over it, i cant stop stalking here at fb etc,at least i(not she) broke up with her, after i realized that she never really loved me, but that doesnt help me, any advice ?:sad1:
     
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    WPG sxn80 Rory Gilmore

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    go to the gym
     
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    pHiLLip fARkLe @farkdoodle

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    http://www.metacafe.com/watch/an-O3...h_marshall_2008_depressed_about_sarah_part_2/
    i cant embed that video
     
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    FlawlessT

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    Its hard to go to gym when you are depressed
     
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    Listen to Drake.
     
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    aquaberryares one time I made sex

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    Get some new p---- bro. You'll forget her last name within 2 weeks.
     
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    Trackz BARCODE

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    Just curious, how long were you with this girl?
     
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    Big Mitch You never made me ran once

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    Do you have a group of friends that you usually hang out with? I dated this girl in high school for a few years and we broke up around this time last year... The first few days were weird as f---, but my friends were the best medicine. Honestly can't tell you the last time I even thought about my ex until typing this. Not sure how old you are, but party a lot this summer lol. Helped me a s--- ton.

    New p---- helps too. :idk:
     
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    I had the same thing last year, but since day one I went out every weekend and made sure I didn't have much time to think about it. Running, going to the gym, spend time with friends.. staying at home is the last thing you should do, but I understand it's hard

    Edit: when you're at home, watching movies/tv shows can keep your mind of it
     
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    Yeah i have, and it helps when im with my friends, but as soon as im alone again at home, its all over again with depression
     
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    Big Mitch You never made me ran once

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    It'll get better. Just gotta keep telling yourself that. Some people take longer than others. I'm not a very emotional person so it was probably easier for me than it is for you (no offense) and I'm probably not the best person to take advice from.

    I usually hate giving advice like this tbh
     
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    The thing that always helped me was staying busy. Don't give your mind a chance to reflect.

    If you're at home alone, listen to music, play video games, etc.
     
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    Best thing is honestly to focus on her bad points, when you think of her, think about all the things you didnt like about her, and why it wouldnt have worked out between you (inconsistencies and s---) then focus on other girls' good points, most guys become infatuated by a women because they only focus on the things they love about them and ignore the bad points,

    Also vodka and bourbon help, along with a really good mate to talk about it with, but either way you will definitely get over her eventually, good luck man! :emoji_thumbsup:
     
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    Oh and one other thing for the future, when it comes to dating/relationships. Unless you're married, always keep a chick on deck.
     
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    Yes you are probably right, time heals, but no one knows how long it will take for me to get over, so its sucks that instead of investing time in something more useful i keep sitting at home depressed and cant stop thinking about her
     
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    Yeah bro, you are 100% right, and i already understood it with relationship, shame it took me so long to to realize that
     
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    pHiLLip fARkLe @farkdoodle

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    until youre flippin through the guide and see "the notebook" [​IMG]
     
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    thx mate :daps:
     
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    JFK Bleach on my t-shirt

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    You can't control your situation, only how you react to it.
    • Stop blaming her. You got yourself into this situation. She's not a b----. She's a girl, and girls are crazy. They literally can't help it.
    • Smile. Life goes on. You will get over her. You have an unknown journey ahead of yourself and that's exciting in itself.
    • Focus on self improvement. Take fitness seriously. Go to the gym or find a home workout program. Stick to it.
    • Stop talking to her. Silence is your strongest weapon. You are in this life by yourself. You need to portray (and eventually believe) one girl cannot effect your happiness. You can and will effortlessly find something else to do whether you're communicating with her or not (and she needs to know this).
    • If you do talk to her, keep it short, witty, and free of emotion. Don't break down. Don't get mad. Don't fall for her s---. Don't text her out of the blue. If she texts "You're still my best friend", text back "My mom is my best friend, but you're up there". Wait hours/days between texts. Make sure she sends the last message. Again, I recommend cutting communication entirely.
    • Talk to other girls. This is the only way to really get your mind off of the old one. You don't need to date them, see them, or f--- them (at first). Just talk to them.
    • If there's one thing to take away from this: Don't be needy. Improve yourself. Don't let others dictate your happiness.
     
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    Thx mate, thats a great advice
     
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