Jan 14, 2017 If my mom were to tell me they she wasn't actually my mother (Haven't spoken to my father in like four years so idc about him) I'd be shocked, but I really wouldn't have any desire to see or have any form of communication with my real parents.
Jan 15, 2017 If my mum wasn't my real mum I'd be in denial for a while I reckon. As for finding out my biologicals I'd probably seek them out and make sense of the situation.
Jan 15, 2017 They must have had a reason to do so though. If you don't seek the answers you'll never know why.
Jan 15, 2017 But in my however many years I've been living up to the point when I found out, they couldn't have found me? Try to contact me through my adopted parents?
Jan 15, 2017 It's a tough one mate. Like for instance I know an older woman who didn't seek out her first born child until he was in adulthood because she didn't see herself fit to be his parent as a 16 year old single woman so she put him up for adoption shortly after giving birth to him. It's a delicate issue for both the child and parent to go through and takes a lot of guts and mental fortitude to seek out one another.
Jan 17, 2017 I would be shocked but since they raised me and been there for me it would make no difference to me in the end