Jul 30, 2015

Continue living your life to the fullest, not wasting your time on anyone who's a negative influence. Don't try to get "revenge". Don't be rude when if enter your life again. Ignore them. Don't let them effect your life.

The best revenge is your absolute happiness with that person out of your life. That's it. Anything else is childish, immature, and will lead to more problems in the future.

 

Jun 16, 2015

 

Apr 6, 2015

Narsh, the best r---r on the forum

 

Jan 11, 2015

Beat 3 open heart surgeries.

 

Apr 16, 2022

Hello All, I hope everyone is doing better then I am currently. listen I'm not one for making countless threads, I deal with a lot of Anxiety from my experiences in the military, that being said since my combat experience I tend to not be able to go shop with my wife and daughter always looking over my shoulder and getting tunnel vision. this leads to anger outbursts.

I'm not looking for sympathy, I'm looking for some others techniques to deal with stress or anxiety. help is appreciated.

 

Oct 7, 2021

You
Yes I am talking to you. What are you doing there on your couch all day eating potato chips and wanking with the spicy powder on it. Oh you watching how i met your mother? f--- that i already met YOUR mother while you watching netflix all day. I swear if i see you with a xbox controller ever again i smash your fookin face.
Stand up, stop crying. Go to your college, s--- on your teachers desk, play football, buy a college jacket and a mustang. Bully some geeks and put them in a locker. Go train muay thai, if your grandma says its too dangerous smash her.
Stop listening to p---- psychopath music like little simz. Go to the gym and listen #COTI and tell your ugly a--- control freak girlfriend that you want to f--- her best friend
Have a blessed day
#COTI #AOTY #independent

 

May 28, 2020

riots over the murder of George Floyd







tons of businesses looted, if not burned down:














this is some real end of the world type s---..I used to live in the area so was watching a buddy's FB stream and holy s--- this is scary..national guard being sent in i guess..

 

Mar 19, 2020

While the forum is dead af maybe some of you can give me advice on my relationship.

So I been dating this girl for over a year and a half, I'm 25 and she is 23 (FYI I'm white from UK and she's Sri Lankan but been in the UK since she was a lil kid)

Since we met the whole relationship has been pretty much perfect. Great connection, chemistry, barely argued, never been close to breaking up.. Sure there's been a few differences but no 2 people are the same. By and large though it's honestly been amazing and we have been best friends and lovers in that time period, even went on holiday together for a week last year

This all changed 7 days ago when she finally told her mum about me. Now I kinda knew that her mum was controlling and a little crazy, but deep down I thought she would accept me once she had met me and seen what I was like. My gf was worried but also said this too. At the end of the day I have treated her daughter with nothing but respect, love and we've both been sooo happy together

So my girl told her last Friday evening and her first question was what I did for work and if I have been to university, and once my girlfriend told her she said that she must end it with me or end up getting disowned.. At first I was like holy s--- that's extreme, but give it a few days hopefully she will cool off and change her mind.. Nope. I told her that your mum will try and play on ur worst fears and get in your head but u can't listen because it's bs and we know what we have. When it comes to her mum tho she's obviously easily influenced, her mums been controlling, manipulating and overbearing as f--- her entire life. The very next day the messages started to feel a little less hopeful and more in the direction of the mother's mouth.

The mum says I don't have a good enough job, I'm not educated enough and this will be a problem in the future and I won't be able to support my gf. Now I know this is ridiculous because my job currently is pretty good, I'm on an upward trajectory in life but the mum has said "it's not stable" and that what I do "might not even be a thing".. Bare in mind I get paid more than her parents do now at their jobs, and more than my current gf (although she has a degree and I don't)

Her mum is saying in future our salaries will be unequal and I won't be able to support her and that basically I'm going to fail in life. My gf claimed she backed me up and says she loves and believes in me still but cannot convince her mum and so she has no choice. Her mum got the family against her and she's essentially been on lock down for a week with all of them saying the same thing and it's brainwashing her. Over the weekend there was some glimmer of hope but effectively she said it was over on Tuesday. I just feel like it's so f----- up cos I haven't even been given the chance to meet her family, and I've not been given the chance to see her either because her mum literally has her on house arrest. I've been talking to her a little just to try and see her but last night she said her mum went crazy and asked her if she's been talking to me and accusing her of going back on her decision, then spent the next morning crying about it! Wtf?

Anyway I just feel mad angry and heartbroken tbh cos it was going amazing and just cos her mum doesn't approve of my current status in life she has said dump me or end up getting disowned, and I haven't had the chance to do s--- to back myself or defend our relationship. My gf is so terrified of her mum she is just being obedient to it. It sucks cos I know she really does love me and she still tells me this, but is saying that it's over and there's nothing I can do to change it cos her mum and family are stubborn

So question is what do I do? I'm hoping to meet her soon to try and reprogram her mind a little, then hopefully get to meet her mum and try change their minds. Appreciate any advice in these lost times

Edit: sorry long as fu k post

 

Dec 4, 2018

I know I f--- around on this forum alot....but.my mother died today. 55 yrs old. I just got out of rehab and had 30 days clean when she died. I relapsed when I found out. Anyone have any advice? I'm not taking this s--- very good. This is pretty sudden. Any advice?

 

Jul 18, 2018

you dont derseve taste buds. Kids in Africa eating dirt pies and that s--- taste better than f---in pineapple on pizza. Y'all f---ing garbage.

 

Jun 15, 2018

I once read that it is men who are romantic, women just like the idea of romance/ being romanced.
I wholeheartedly agree.


My boyfriend always makes me feel special, from kisses & hugs, his supportive, caring words, to random gifts. He recently bought me a "massager" just because, no special occasion, for example, and last week a new phone (I lost mine).
And while I give him affection, and tell him what an amazing person I think he is, try to keep the house relatively clean & tidy for when he gets home from work I feel want to do more to really make him feel as special as he does me and to show how important he is. But I feel stumped on what I should be do.

So gents, what are some things your lady friends do to make you feel truly appreciated? What things would you like your lady to be doing?


Side notes:
- I have only just started working again (thanks to him getting me a job) so for the next few months gifts will be off the table as I have to pay off some other things first.

- he is away atm so I will have dinner in the stove for when he gets home. But should I surprise and meet him at the station when he gets back in town?



Let me inside your male minds =)

 

Apr 17, 2018

 

Oct 2, 2017

I see nobody posted it so, yeah, yesterday we did a referendum an the yes won by 90% even though we had Spanish police beating up civilians (lot of them, eldery) trying to keep em from voting.

How did the media portray it in your country?