Dec 9, 2015

Almost everyone is "certain" about their significant other on their marriage date. That's like, the whole point.

People change. Love fades. Life happens.

 

Dec 9, 2015

It's pretty silly to assume you're always gonna be in the crazy in love honeymoon stage though


I guess everyone has their own preferences on marriage. Some people are just really independant and want a life of their own. But people who reject marriage out of paranoia and bitterness like we won't be in love forever and she's gonna divorce and take half of my money probably won't be happy a single life either.

A lot of younger guys feel like why settle for one chick when I can have many! I used to feel like that to. You kind of get bored though. When you aren't having sex who do you really want to spend time with? I find the Dan Bilzerian lifestyle kind of empty albeit exciting for a while. Sex is important in marriage though and I'd be willing to bet that's where a large chunk of divorces stem from. People getting bored of their partners. Sex becomes routine and vanilla and probably can start to feel incestuous. It gets boring. Sexual frustrations creeps into other aspects of life with your partner. There's really no reason why the sexual passion should fade off just because you're married

To each their own but people need to chill with all the bitterness and paranoia about marriage. But if it's not about that and marriage just isn't for you then that's perfectly fine. Personally I don't really mind either way whether I get married or not. But I wouldn't marry anyone unless I lived with them for a few years and was really certain about it. Of course no one can predict what the future will hold. But if I wanted to get married I wouldn't stay single on the off chance the marriage might eventually fall apart

 

Dec 9, 2015

they didnt have a fukin clue

ashamed at you for not realising

 

Dec 9, 2015

I suppose they do feel they're sure about it at that time..

But by "certain" I meant .. a bit more careful, and wise about the decision, not to mention being at the proper stage in your life to do so. For instance getting married to someone just because the two of you have similar interests won't do any good if you're not on the same page with them about your values, beliefs, this life long commitment. "People change, life happens" that is all fine .. but I think having the mindset that marriage is forever is important & both should try to do anything/everything to make it work.

 

Dec 9, 2015

Prison is a man made marriage

 

Dec 9, 2015

n-----, prison is a man made prison.

 

Dec 10, 2015

I don't get the desire for marriage.......especially if youre not ready

it seems like now its not really about "unifying man and woman" which is the impression I got from talking to married people and religious folk...

I know there are some really good marriages out there and I feel like those people took the time to get to know one another, or just are both dedicated individuals who share that common trait.

just out of curiosity...what are some reasons people get married besides love?

 

Dec 10, 2015

Well for thousands of years life has been to meet a significant other and raise a family and live life together. Procreating is wired into us but it would be a bit chaotic if everyone stuck to our caveman ways and f----- anyone and everything and produced offspring with no sense of union or family

 

Dec 10, 2015

@Chad Warden
f--- the family unit.

 

Dec 13, 2015

Life brah