Oct 19, 2017 Shes spending the rest of the week with me for fall break and she wants to have alot of sex but I haven't gone all the way before. We've been together for 4 months. Im a little nervous about losing my virginity because if for some reason we break up im gonna feel like s---. Am I overthinking?
Oct 19, 2017 agreed. with this girl, i had studied with her in the library and after we were done, i simply asked if she would be interested in having lunch with me on a different day. it might not have been the best approach to take, but it was an honest and respectful way to ask a girl out. i can't speak for women, but personally, i think females really like being approached by a guy as long as its done in a respectful and non-creepy way
Oct 27, 2017 do you guys think its a good idea to try to (eventually) get a couple back together? my best friend and his wife just got divorced. they were high school sweet hearts, so they had been together for 13 straight years until the recent breakup. i was one of the best men in their wedding, and i don't have many friends, so when he told me about this I was in disbelief. i went to hang out with him this past monday for the vikings vs. redskins game and this was the first time we had chilled since i heard about the divorce, and she wasn't at the house, that's when reality started to set in for me i'm not really sure what went wrong, and i haven't bothered asking him because its not any of my business. both of them are college educated and sustained good paying jobs throughout their marriage. they had a beautiful home, so i really doubt them splitting up had anything to do with fiances. my gut is telling me i should stay out of it, and that its a bad idea to get involved. however, i know of some cases in which divorced people have actually gotten back together again. its just really weird (and sad) not seeing them together anymore because i've known both of them for such a long period of time and we've spent so much time together. what do you guys think?
Oct 27, 2017 Im not scared I was overthinking. I've been hurt so much and if I were to lose my virginity to a slut or someone who played me id feel like s---
Oct 27, 2017 This is an attitude you gotta get rid of man. It's fine if you're not ready to have sex, but worrying about someone being a "slut" isn't going to get you anywhere. It's a red flag to me that you're having thoughts about your girl like that. You might stay together forever. You might break up in a month. You might break up in five years. When you're only four months into a relationship everything is up in the air and you don't have to go all in. You're still learning about each other. If this is a girl you like and having sex is something you want to do then f---ing go for it man. But worrying about what's gonna happen if you break up or if she's a "slut" is only gonna hold you back. People put losing their virginity on a pedestal, and it's not really anything to worry about.
Oct 27, 2017 She might be a hoe tbh but what's the point of dating a hoe if you're not gonna f--- her? Get your s--- together Tony.
Oct 27, 2017 Yeah I mean if he's worried about how many people she's had sex with before him he shouldn't be dating her in the first place.
Oct 27, 2017 Still, being cheated on isn't something you should worry about unless she's done it before. To me it's definitely a red flag if someone's cheated in more than one past relationship. Cheating's kinda something you do zero times, one time (a legit mistake/moment of weakness), or a bunch of times. congrats brother
Oct 27, 2017 She hasn't before but past girls I've been involved with have so im still getting over being played and trusting Thanks bro
Oct 27, 2017 Then you got nothing to worry about, I've been cheated on too so I understand how you feel.
