Unpopular Life Opinions

Started by Michael Myers, Jul 20, 2020, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    Jul 23, 2020
    Couldn't agree more. I think the concept of a "soulmate" or even love itself has been greatly romanticized by movies, music, and tv.
     
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  2. Mimi
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    Mimi the art of doing nothing

    Jul 24, 2020
    Never trust anyone

    people will ALWAYS leave you and hurt you
     
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  3. Mikey
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    Jul 24, 2020
    Trust has to be earned.

    I certaintly would never 100% trust someone I don't know very well. But important not be too cynical.
    Has to be a balance like many things in life.
     
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  4. Fire Squad
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    Fire Squad Boss Don Biggavel

    Jul 24, 2020
    We as a society have instilled a convoluted doctrine of “if you’re lonely, you’re miserable!” that couldn’t be anymore erroneous

    Too each their own, there are benefits to committing yourself to another half & likewise, to echo everything my brudda @Enigma said, to just sticking around and going solo. Being absolutist in any shape or format denies you the chance to look at different perspectives. Break the cycle and live your lives on your own terms!

    In my case, I’m honestly fiercely independent to a fault, the idea of spending my life with another person just...doesn’t appeal to me.
     
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  5. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 24, 2020
    Co f---ing sign
     
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  6. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 24, 2020
    Also when people say 'its or isnt my type' I cringe.

    Like there's nu such thing. I liked and dated so many different women. Sometimes it clicks sometimes it doesnt. But to have one type is bs lol
     
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  7. DKC
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    DKC hank trill

    Jul 24, 2020
    Nah I think people definitely have types, but it's more subconscious than anything...not that you can't notice it (esp after the fact). And that doesn't mean you have to date a certain type, just that you tend to fall for a certain type.
     
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  8. Ricky
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    Ricky Hip-Hop CEO ™

    Jul 24, 2020
    MILF >>> Teen
     
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  9. SHUDEYE
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    SHUDEYE Kerser is the sickest.

    Jul 24, 2020
    Spot on. If someone's a c---- they're a c----.
     
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  10. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    Jul 26, 2020
    Dating to marry is dumb. You put so much pressure & expectations on your relationship, it’s almost like you’re setting it up to fail. Dating is all about experiences & growth. If that takes you to marriage so be it but just because a relationship doesn’t end in marriage, doesn’t make it a failed experiment.
     
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  11. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 26, 2020
    All those stories from people that had a few years relationship, saying 'all wasted time because in the end she (speaking from male pov) wasn't the one'

    Get the f--- out of here, if you had a good time together and it ended in a break up, that doesn't change the good times u had w the other person.
     
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  12. The Moon Man
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    The Moon Man Out of my mind

    Jul 26, 2020
    Hit the nail on the head here.
     
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  13. Spatula
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    Spatula Relapse is a masterpiece

    Jul 31, 2020
    Traveling sucks. It has become a modern cool thing to do and people think the more countries they visit the more interesting they are. In reality, all they did was bring their same old boring self to a different location, haven't learned anything and haven't changed. I consider anyone who has an urge to travel around whenever they have free time a boring person who can't live with themselves.
     
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  14. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Jul 31, 2020
    d--- lol
     
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  15. The Moon Man
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    The Moon Man Out of my mind

    Jul 31, 2020
    There's so much to pick apart here. I am a photographer so I am either travelling around for work or to take photos. Does that make me boring? I don't know.
     
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  16. Spatula
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    Spatula Relapse is a masterpiece

    Jul 31, 2020
    No, I mean tourism
     
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  17. The Moon Man
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    The Moon Man Out of my mind

    Jul 31, 2020
    But man, there's so many nice places to go and see. So many places to hike. You're missing out.
     
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  18. Spatula
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    Spatula Relapse is a masterpiece

    Jul 31, 2020
     
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  19. Enigma
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    Enigma Civil liberties > Police safety

    Jul 31, 2020
    -1/10 opinion tbh. I mean people travel for different reasons. It could be for work, experience different culture, enjoy different weather etc. Most people aren’t soul searching or trying to change themselves through traveling.
     
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  20. M Solo
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    M Solo Fresh Outta London

    Jul 31, 2020


    Agreed. I literally hate people who live for vacations. I love my life and the last thing I want to do is go away from it. I also hate the #catchflightsnotfeelings crowd.
     
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