Jul 13, 2016

Basically I'm not spending enough time with my gf. I work 3-10 5 times a week and on my days off I do my other job for a few hours. Most of the time I come home and play videogames/mess around on my phone and usually wake up at around 10/11am. I usually go to the gym before work or take my dog out and she works middle shifts which doesn't really allow for us to see each other in the mornings. She asks me to hang out after work quite often but I'm usually tired by then and just wanna go home =\

We hang out on the weekends like twice a week but she still feels lonely. We've talked about it and she says she'll learn to deal with but I can tell it bothers her a lot. Her friend and his gf always go to hang out together and I can tell she resents me for that. I don't know what to do. I know I could make the effort to hang out more after work and s--- but I'm tired.
It's not like I neglect her, we constantly text throughout the day but she wants more. I can't help but feel it's only gonna get worse once school starts.

She shouldn't have to "learn" to deal with not hanging out enough. I just feel like s--- about the whole thing.

 

Jul 13, 2016

Well i dont have a girlfriend atm but i kinda went through the same thing when i first started my job where i would barely have time to chill with my friends and s--- and when i did i was too exhausted.


Eventually u'll get used to the workload and will be less tired all the time, just tell her u need time to adjust to ur new job or w/e

 

Jul 13, 2016

That might leave her open for another n----- to sweep her up. Or she might start feeling insecure about your relationship status and then alot of bs problems could follow.
Both hapened to me. Idk maybe adult women are a little better in these situations than my ex's (my age). But d---, don't allow either to happen.
Do what tha n----- above says.

 

Jul 13, 2016

If you give a s--- you will spend time with her other than sleeping in and playing video games or s--- it up and stay out late, especially since you don't have to work until 3 the next day.

Problem solved, you're welcome.

 

Jul 14, 2016

Take a break from the video games and spend time with her would be my only advice for your situation. Get Pokemon GO and do that with her?

 

Jul 14, 2016

I wanna find the right one but I get horny af in certain moods which makes me act like a kunt plus Idk who 2 go for out of 2 people and I always end up hating people after 2 days of being with them and I'm a bit 2 crazy for people 2 be around extensively.

 

Jul 14, 2016

Depends on how serious you want to take this relationship? If you don't really have the urge to spend time and if she's already starting to feel disgruntled about the situation it may be best to talk about it with her; going separate ways might be beneficially to both you guys but if you can find some kind of compromise and if it does genuinely make you two happy then by all means see what you can find. Companionship is supposed to make you happy, just some food for thought but hope you guys can work this out.

 

Jul 14, 2016

idk what this thread is about but after 3 relationships ive learnt just f--- b------s and get money well for me anyway my longest relationship was 6 months and it does not work if one person cant get there s--- together like job car etc so just f--- b------s and do you i will never try for a relationship ever again

 

Jul 14, 2016

Ew your avy.

 

Jul 16, 2016

get her pregnant

 

Jul 16, 2016

Just quit your job and sponge off her.

b------s will b---- regardless. You either don't make enough money or you work too much.

 

Jul 16, 2016

This was my situation when I was 18 first job working 40-50 hours a week. I dont really have advice for you though cause we didnt work out because of it

 

Jul 16, 2016

 

Jul 16, 2016

Sounds like you should make more of an effort to hang out with her after work, you can't be that tried of you get off at 10 and don't wake up the next day till 10-11, that's a 12-13 hour gap, if you are chug a small can of red bull or something

 

Jul 17, 2016

She can't get enough of that d-ck @Nori