Oct 3, 2017 This was my plan but I've been second guessing it. It seems like she's interested but I don't know, makin a move and things going south always sucks.
Oct 3, 2017 I feel u. U definitely have to be up front about s--- like this and not be afraid to be blunt with her. u have to get a feel that she would be down for NSA smashing too. Most broads ain't cut out for it in my experience lol. U said she knows a relationship is off the table but if i were u I'd vocalize to her that it definitely is off the table if ur not looking for that. That's the key. I think u can get a pretty good read of her intentions from her response to that. Like if she seems put off when u tell her that I'd just move on. If she agrees with u but still shows interest that's when u subtly hint at the possibility of "other things" not being off the table. Cus she will start to get ideas if ur intentions ain't clear. These broads looking for prince charming. If y'all smash without u yelling her what's up beforehand she will catch feels guaranteed.
Oct 3, 2017 Its a risk you gotta take. The only thing holding you back is fear. The fear of rejection is diluting your vision. Take that fear out of the equation and you can do literally anything you want. Just jump into the unknown and see where it takes you bruh. Put your nikes on next date and JUST DO IT
Oct 3, 2017 Being honest about what you want doesn't make you a douche. In my experience girls always prefer to know what your intentions are. If I was in your position, I'd chill with her again BEFORE telling her what I want out of it, unless she asks you in the time between ya'll next hangout. This way you can get another read on her before putting all your cards on the table. Also this should go without saying but keep building up that roster while you're back at college.
Oct 3, 2017 There's also this other girl who I've been talking to but she has monogamy issues and might be bipolar so im not gonna press down on her
Oct 3, 2017 lol I have had a tire slashed before due to a crazy b---- like 2 years ago but nah on some real s--- you cant wait forever either. you gotta let her know that you are atleast interested in her because if not than she might get the wrong idea and think otherwise. And in my opinion I would rather get told no than waiting back and then loosing her because I was being a p---- about the whole situation and never told her how I felt. If yall have been friends for a while than theres nothing to worry about. Go get you some punanny @Sign Language
Oct 3, 2017 I was half joking wit u. It's not bad advice to go for it but just diving in and sleeping with someone u have a friendly relationship with whom u have no intentions on cuffing is a sure fire way to give someone the wrong idea and get ya candy paint keyed.
Oct 3, 2017 I know this is an older post, but I wouldn't sweat it if you just started college dude. I didn't reach my prime til junior-senior year of college until after I had a Bad College Relationship, when I knew way more people in my college town, and had way more experience with women in general.
Oct 3, 2017 Yeah I was gonna hang with her again just to make sure I'm reading things right. So once I get a for sure read on things (which I feel pretty good about atm), how should I go about making my intentions clear? Just be straight up verbally or make a move? And lol I'm still working on my college roster but this just kinda fell into my lap. This is reassuring tbh. @El Plus Member what is NSA smashing lol?
