Mar 3, 2017 It's just a work splash, so things can get awks if he pushes, but yeah I wouldn't bother with 2 and 3 if I'm throwing up a shot for a random.
Mar 3, 2017 Thanks bro. You have a non social media version as well? She works 3 days a week and we talk almost everyday she's there. Since I work there for 7 months now and she for 2 months now we do have a 'connection' since we are both new. I know what she is going through right now and when she has questions etc she mostly askes me (also because most people are much older and she is close to my age). I will continue this for a while and see how it goes. I do make conversations more funny though, and little less just about work.
Mar 3, 2017 Wow I hate having a girlfriend but she's not actually my girlfriend. - Soldier, 2017 Legend
Mar 5, 2017 hm ok i try this thing here So there is a girl in my choir never thought i would like her but we end up talking about things we like and linked. So we met quite often cinema, doing photography and stuff and i started to really like her. I also felt like she liked me so i told her that. she said she was scared about relationships and never had a boyfriend and didnt wanted to f--- up the good times that we have together. She also said she gets nervous and i even took her pulse and it was crazy. Didnt wanted to force her and said she gets the time she needs. Man really felt bad about it. We still met each other i also help her with her applications but i dont wanna waste my time if she just wanna be friends but i still do have feelings for her. So am i stuck in the friendzone now ? sry for my mistakes i am not fluent in english
Mar 6, 2017 Nah that was the right move to walk away. Let it be for now, move on and try meeting/talking to other girls. In 1-2 months link up again and if she's still hesitant to make any kind of commitment then you can move on for good. Can't get stuck in the friend zone if you're outta the picture before she puts you there.
Mar 6, 2017 Honestly brother, you might just have to feel out the vibe and s---t your shot in person. The social media version was just a fail safe version to mitigate rejection but if it's not available to you, I would just go for the classic. If the vibe is good, ask if she want's to chill sometime (up in the air, no timeline, nothing specific). Gauge her reaction, and if you feel like she really does want to kick it, then ask a few days later with something specific (date/place/activity).
Mar 6, 2017 Ok actually hard for me to get her out of my mind but she recently text me and was really angry, she said she doesnt need someone to help her she is grown up and stuff well i just said i can help if she needed more help for her applications (probably out of stress but i dunno) well i might just wait till end of march and see what happends. Looking for other girls is quite hard because my daily life is really busy but i'll look around might find someone at the Sampha Concert or Thundercat
Mar 6, 2017 she said she doesnt need someone to help her she is grown up and stuff well i just said i can help if she needed more help for her applications Well every week meet at least once (choir) and text like everyday(well i try)
Mar 6, 2017 Yeah I'd move on. Don't go out of your way to text her out of choir, if she texts you then reply, just don't be the one to initiate the conversation.
Mar 6, 2017 i actually thought about that yesterday but i did text her and now i regret it. I wont text her anymore and i hope i find someone else. Link up with someone in a concert ?
Mar 6, 2017 Yeah give it a shot. If this other chick wants more from you, she'll come back. Girls have a way of finding time for things that they want.
