Jan 25, 2019 My last boyfriend was awful. I'm pretty d--- feminine in personality but I honestly haven't dabbled in relationships as much as other girls my age (18). So I'm curious, what things relating to personality MUST a girl have and what must they not have for you to be happy in the relationship?
Jan 25, 2019 Honesty/Trustworthy Optimistic personality Must haves for me The opposite of those must not haves obviously (not trustworthy and being negative all the time)
Jan 25, 2019 I get that, but she can be vulnerable sometimes right? Like about her fears and such. Not getting to do that to my boyfriend would drive me nuts
Jan 25, 2019 So like for me with a guy, and this is just me personally not all girls agree, but for me they have to be: As smart or smarter than me, confident (I could be flexible with confidence though maybe) doing something with their life, not a d-ck or act like a bully or a f---ing sadist, and able to have actual meaningful conversations
Jan 25, 2019 Nah not what I mean. Vulnerable is not bad.. also would have contradicted w honesty. I meant that I know women that are literally negative all the time (like, a mindset)
Jan 25, 2019 I need someone who is clever enough to think for herself, and someone who can be honest with me. When I say that, i mean if something is wrong and I ask, they tell me. Being reserved about it is fine, as long as those walls eventually come down. Don't "expect" me to know whats up if you won't tell me. I'm not a mind-reader lmao We both just need to work as hard as each other to make it work basically
Jan 25, 2019 I feel as though ive seen enough to where if i could find someone as egotistical as me Someone with good music taste Not from where i grew up And someone who brings more to the table than f---ing me all the time then resorting to calling me a piece of s--- when i wanna be alone and actually has interests and stories/loves themselves with or without me That id be eternally happy with a partner But that also sounds like some build a female type s--- its just a wish
Jan 25, 2019 must be into online forums and be a big fan of eminem. Also must be able to split addys with me when we chilling
Jan 25, 2019 One of the things I learned very early on is I'm going to have to make it very very very clear to a guy when I want them to react to how Im feeling because if I don't they're too socially r-----ed to get it lol. Me not having to tell them would be cute but that's unrealistic
Jan 25, 2019 I was thinking about this and it's like I'm always low af on Addy it's a pain in the a--- to get so idk if I could share anyway lol. My dream is to fall in love with a rich man who can buy me as much addy as I want lmao I'm kidding obviously