Nov 20, 2025

I’m glad to finally see more people on this site opening up. I hope things get better for you. Feel free to provide us with updates as time goes on.

 

Nov 19, 2025

Dang. That's rough man. I've been with my wife for nearly 20 years now (married for 14 years). We have two kids together.

I couldn't imagine life without her at this point. But I'm lucky, she lets me do my own thing whenever I want. Within reason of course. I've always been faithful (bar a little flirting but I'd like to think that's normal).

Couldn't imagine going through what you're going through man. I hope everything works out.

 

Nov 16, 2025

Has she been with someone else yet? That thought alone should keep you from ever feeling down about her or wanting to go back to her, no matter how long you were with her.


If you have no children with her, it should be a lot easier, if you have children it makes it 10x harder imo. Be very thankful if it’s the former.


Theres plenty of better, funnier, hotter women out there than her, get yourself out there and have some fun. The weakest thing a man can do imo is sit wallowing and overthinking about a female.


It’s high likely you will slowly start to become a better person throughout all this eventually too. More hard working, smarter, healthier, everything. It just takes a little time. Trust the process

 

Feb 17, 2026

Thriving recently!! Picked up a second job, I’m making more money than ever, paid down lots of credit card debt, have new relationship interests, my apartment is dope, my neighborhood is amazing and has amazing breweries, restaurants. I’ve reconned with lots of old friends in Pittsburgh too.

My family has desperately needed help as I’m the only driver and me moving back to Pittsburgh (where they live as well) has came in super clutch as my parents are older (71, and 65)

these are the new updates! I wanted to let the fam know! Also, I’m finally sitting in a new recliner and my back is really happy since I’m 30 now and the bones are tired Af always haha

 

Nov 23, 2025

Yo, y’all have been amazing with the support! This s--- really warms my heart and helps a lot.

 

Nov 20, 2025

Sorry to hear this man. Hopefully you move past it in a positive way and one day find another that brings you a full and happy life. I’ve been with my wife now for 9 years (6 years married) and I’m at the point in life where I couldn’t imagine going through a divorce. Hang in there man. Keep your head up.

 

Nov 19, 2025

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Divorce is rough. Been there done that, hopefully you don’t have a property and intwined financials. That got ugly in my situation. Do you your best to keep your head up. Keep busy.
But honestly, from a female perspective if we love somebody trust we don’t flirt. Text flirting, there’s a good chance there’s more to it, run while you can. Being out with the girls clubbing type flirting usually pretty innocent doesn’t go further than that if we love our man

 

Nov 29, 2025

Quick update Fam! Just got all my stuff moved into my new apartment back in my hometown of Pittsburgh! Tomorrow I drive my car back and I’m officially all moved in and set up out here!

 

Nov 16, 2025

I'm not saying its a red flag but that's a long time to be with someone without being committed and maybe is why the marriage didn't last long. I dunno just from what I've seen with other people.