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  1. Ripper Roo
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    Ripper Roo Last of a Dying Breed

    Feb 11, 2026 at 8:08 AM
    I’m sorry but it’s not worth it dude. I don’t care what good times you had with her, how pretty she is, how good the p---- is, etc. She’s never going to actually fix her alcoholism if you keep going back to her. It’ll just keep getting worse because she’ll see that you keep coming back to her no matter how horrible she is. She needs to deal with the consequences of what she’s doing and maybe even hit rock bottom to truly see the error of her ways and finally get help for her addiction. She has to truly wanna get better for HERSELF, not for you. If she is only getting better for you it’ll never work. You can’t fix her.
     
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  2. Michael Myers
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    Michael Myers Moderator

    Feb 11, 2026 at 9:14 AM
    It's your decision brother, but my advise would be very short: don't.
     
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  3. Ricky
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    Ricky mixtape: 05/16/26

    Feb 11, 2026 at 11:00 AM
    f--- no, dont be stupid, you will regret this
     
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  4. BIGFOOT
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    BIGFOOT More than a myth!

    Feb 11, 2026 at 10:28 AM
    Definitely avoid dude toxic relationship will end up hurting your mental health Trust me I've been there. Do you have children with her?
     
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  5. Slyk
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    Slyk God made a prophet.

    Feb 13, 2026 at 3:11 PM
    FWB sounds like a healthy down-titration, but in reality it's a slippery upward slope.
    plus, imagine if/when you start dating or f---ing someone else and she's still in the mix.
     
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  6. Ricky
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    Ricky mixtape: 05/16/26

    Feb 11, 2026 at 3:04 PM
    There he goes, average Will Smith music enjoyer
     
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  7. icecube
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    icecube West Coast is the Best Coast

    Feb 11, 2026 at 2:12 PM
    If she gives great head then I'd say go for it.
     
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  8. Spatula
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    Spatula that you want

    Feb 11, 2026 at 12:36 PM
    I know all this intelectually, but emotions are strong. My mind is racing.
     
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  9. BIGFOOT
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    BIGFOOT More than a myth!

    Feb 11, 2026 at 11:31 AM
    Still not nice but at least that makes it easier. Honestly bro I know it's difficult to do but force yourself to k--- all ties.

    Also try not to hit the booze yourself to try and "heal" cos it doesn't work.

    Hope it works out for you bro
     
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  10. Minato
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    Minato Eminem’s Burner Account

    Feb 11, 2026 at 8:20 AM
    Agree. It’s an endless cycle. And people wonder why I’m single. No h---, but Kim just didn’t hit the spot like my dildo
     
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  11. Spatula
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    Spatula that you want

    Feb 11, 2026 at 6:21 AM
    Had a horrible sudden breakup with my gf after she got drunk again and was a mean drunk again (demons inside her come out). Told her last time there will be no more chances, she said she can drink moderately, promised. Happened again. Broke up with her, she refused to leave, started causing chaos in the house, I called the cops, she started hitting me, kicked her out, she almost knocked the doors down, cops came, took her.

    Constant fights even without alcohol, but god d--- all I see now is the good times. I am a weak man and I consider getting in touch with her and try to fix things. I am torn. This is hard.
     
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