Best Posts: Strong urges to get back with a toxic girlfriend

  1. Ripper Roo
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    Feb 11, 2026
    I’m sorry but it’s not worth it dude. I don’t care what good times you had with her, how pretty she is, how good the p---- is, etc. She’s never going to actually fix her alcoholism if you keep going back to her. It’ll just keep getting worse because she’ll see that you keep coming back to her no matter how horrible she is. She needs to deal with the consequences of what she’s doing and maybe even hit rock bottom to truly see the error of her ways and finally get help for her addiction. She has to truly wanna get better for HERSELF, not for you. If she is only getting better for you it’ll never work. You can’t fix her.
     
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  2. Michael Myers
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    Feb 11, 2026
    It's your decision brother, but my advise would be very short: don't.
     
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  3. Ricky
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    Feb 11, 2026
    There he goes, average Will Smith music enjoyer
     
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  4. icecube
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    icecube West Coast is the Best Coast

    Feb 11, 2026
    If she gives great head then I'd say go for it.
     
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  5. Ricky
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    Feb 11, 2026
    f--- no, dont be stupid, you will regret this
     
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  6. BIGFOOT
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    BIGFOOT More than a myth!

    Feb 11, 2026
    Definitely avoid dude toxic relationship will end up hurting your mental health Trust me I've been there. Do you have children with her?
     
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  7. Ripper Roo
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    Feb 17, 2026
    Taking relationship advice from Marsh might be the dumbest thing someone could possibly do
     
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  8. Spatula
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    Spatula that you want

    Feb 14, 2026
    Well, update. We met for what I thought would be just sex but ended up being 5 hour talk...and sex. Sort of a closure. I did not get the urge to get back togethet, even though she seems to have taken the best out of this situation and decided to clean her life up. She seemed healthy and stable. But something in me is gone and now I know.
     
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  9. Slyk
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    Slyk God made a prophet.

    Feb 13, 2026
    FWB sounds like a healthy down-titration, but in reality it's a slippery upward slope.
    plus, imagine if/when you start dating or f---ing someone else and she's still in the mix.
     
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  10. Spatula
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    Spatula that you want

    Feb 11, 2026
    I know all this intelectually, but emotions are strong. My mind is racing.
     
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  11. BIGFOOT
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    BIGFOOT More than a myth!

    Feb 11, 2026
    Still not nice but at least that makes it easier. Honestly bro I know it's difficult to do but force yourself to k--- all ties.

    Also try not to hit the booze yourself to try and "heal" cos it doesn't work.

    Hope it works out for you bro
     
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  12. Minato
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    Minato The Prime Eminem

    Feb 11, 2026
    Agree. It’s an endless cycle. And people wonder why I’m single. No h---, but Kim just didn’t hit the spot like my dildo
     
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  13. Spatula
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    Spatula that you want

    Feb 11, 2026
    Had a horrible sudden breakup with my gf after she got drunk again and was a mean drunk again (demons inside her come out). Told her last time there will be no more chances, she said she can drink moderately, promised. Happened again. Broke up with her, she refused to leave, started causing chaos in the house, I called the cops, she started hitting me, kicked her out, she almost knocked the doors down, cops came, took her.

    Constant fights even without alcohol, but god d--- all I see now is the good times. I am a weak man and I consider getting in touch with her and try to fix things. I am torn. This is hard.
     
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