May 15, 2017 Nice that 'serious' tag. What a bunch of r-----ed posts except a few. But yeah make sure you keep busy so you focus on other things instead of her. Hobbeis/sports etc. Try not to be alone doing nothing so you have no 'time' to feel bad. After a while that feeling slowly goes away and you'll feel a lot better.
May 15, 2017 Keep busy, work, gym, games whatever keeps your mind busy. Music helps a lot. 808's and American teen helped me last couple weeks. But keeping your mind busy, stay of social media.
May 15, 2017 Thanks guys. It's harder than it should be to stay away from social media, but I'm definitely going to go with the gym/self-improvement strategy. Marvin's Room came on shuffle the other night and I made the mistake of not skipping it
May 15, 2017 I totally get that it is hard, but once you do it for a week or so it'll become easy. Then after a while you can slowly come back to it.
May 15, 2017 @XXXSQUIDACION pretty much a rehash of what a lot of people have said. I think the biggest thing is to try to keep yourself busy. Workout, hang out with friends, pick up more hours at work, go on a trip etc. You don't want to be moping around your house sad all day thinking about the other person. Another big thing is to cut off communication from her or at LEAST limit it. It's going to take a lot longer to get over a person if you're in constant communication with them/waiting for them to respond to your text. This can be the hardest part for some people but I've found it to be necessary in most cases. If you want to truly get over someone, you need to give yourself some type of break away from them. In my experience, if we're talking about like a break up scenario, the first two weeks [of trying to get over someone] are the hardest. After that, it gets a bit easier and once a month goes by, it gets a lot easier. Everything just starts to become natural, your feelings for the other person won't disappear but they'll begin to fade and won't be as strong.
May 15, 2017 Find a rebound and put more time into improving yourself. No real science to this s--- but dwelling only makes it worse. On to the next one.
May 15, 2017 Time. Also try to develop a tendency to hate her. Try to adopt a mentality that everything happens for a reason.
May 15, 2017 Learn how to box. Not to get back at the dude but for in case there's a next time. You'll be getting the craziest workouts of your life while learning how to whoop some a---. If you actually think you could make some good music start writing and learning how to do that. s--- could be like a hobby to keep you busy which will definitely help. My baby mamma hands down the best I ever had and getting over her was a long difficult process. Do not downgrade at all costs unless it's just a side piece. Put yourself in a position where a few years from now you can look back and say you're the better person. He prolly gonna f--- her over and they just tryna smash a bunch tbh lmao.
