Serious Communication issue

Started by DKomamura, May 19, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. DKomamura
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    DKomamura #Istillpreferasians

    May 19, 2017
    Idk i thing i lack alot of social skills that i didnt realised i needed. I dont really talk that much and most of the time i am more concerned with gaming and music than the people around me. I dont want to start convos because i am pretty bad at it and the topics that i am interested general people dont really care for. I really hate casual convos about weather or politics. I just want to talk about Kanye or Everyday Struggle etc. Like no one is a Hip Hop hypebeast around me. Forums are cool but i really wanna be able to have some people around me irl.
     
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  2. theg
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    May 19, 2017
    Get tested for autism and coast off them sweet neetbux
     
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  3. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    May 19, 2017
    broaden your interests
     
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  4. Groovy Tony
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    Groovy Tony Grandma's baby Eddie Kane

    May 19, 2017
    Try your best to get out of your shell and interact with people. The more social situations you are involved in, the more the issue will be mended
     
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  5. paulye
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    May 19, 2017
    Some girls like hip hop so try to find a girl who likes hip hop.

    Go to like a vacation and start acting all extroverted and smile to people and stuff. That way if you embarrass yourself, you'll be back to your home anyway. But of course you could start acting decisively different back home, but it's kinda weird if all of a sudden you do that. But I mean girls don't ever make the initiative, so try to like just smile and say 'hi' and open up a convo by talking about music or like whatever. idk what I'm saying, I mean I can kinda relate to OP tbh.
     
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  6. theg
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    May 19, 2017
    did you just discover vacations or something I feel like it's all you've been talking about lately
     
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  7. theg
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    theg got that pma

    May 19, 2017
    Then again i rarely read your posts
     
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  8. Sign Language
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    Sign Language We miss you Screw

    May 19, 2017
    :currydead:
     
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  9. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    May 19, 2017
    he's on leave from work prob a disability leave or something
     
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  10. theg
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    I really doubt he has a job
     
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  11. Lucy
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    Lucy #1

    May 19, 2017
    OP, dont take advice from this idiot. he was trying to convince people he got an STD from a prostitute on his hand
     
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  12. Alchemist34
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    May 20, 2017
    He was also trying to convince the prostitute to like Trump you can't make this s--- up
     
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  13. Lucy
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    Lucy #1

    May 20, 2017
    he also "cant tell the difference between a prostitute and a female"
     
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    love ya frankie
     
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  15. icecube
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    Until you understand what the benefits are to YOURSELF you'll never be able to focus on the why or the how.

    Instead of thinking about how to do it think about the result of doing what you want and then that may give you a higher desire to take yourself out of your comfort zone.
     
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  16. mow
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    mow long live flippa

    May 20, 2017
    Lately i've been struggling with a same kinda thing tbh, until i realized not being very social is completely fine
    That doesn't mean you shouldn't challenge yourself and find new interests and experiences, but i'm trying to say that you should find a way to think about the way you are as strength, not weakness
    If you really think you lack some very essential social skills, i guess you could try to like take a course where you can better them with other people like you
     
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  17. Joey
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    May 20, 2017
    It feels like youre missing out on life right?
     
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