How Quickly Do You Trust People IRL?

Started by Michael Myers, Sep 21, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Michael Myers
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    Sep 21, 2017
    Like, do you tell personal stuff to people you just met, or does it take a long time before tou trust people? Do you quickly feel comfortable with people or nah?

    Btw this isn't about romantic relationships only, also co-workers, friends, family etc
     
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  2. Bourbon Ben
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    Sep 21, 2017
    depends how drunk i am
     
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  3. Deadpool
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    Sep 21, 2017
    trust shouldn't easily be given, ill trust someone after a few years
     
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  4. Michael Myers
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    Sep 21, 2017
    This is a very good point actually lol
     
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    BSCalrissian "Hip Hop and Rap yeah that's where my hearts at"

    Sep 21, 2017
    waaay too soon
    caused me trouble more than one times
    I got disappointed by people a lot but it was also my fault cause I always think that people'll give me back what I put into it
     
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  6. Cyreides
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    Sep 21, 2017
    i don't
     
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    I’m normally quite a good judge of whether I can trust someone. But I never tell them anything that personal as soon as I’ve met them
     
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    but sober me doesnt trust no one im paranoid af
     
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    Sep 21, 2017
    Instantly sadly
     
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    Problem with co-workers for expample is you see them daily, and you talk a LOT, but that doesn't mean u can actually trust them

    The things I hear some people say about eachother that were supposed to be kept quiet lol
     
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    Sep 21, 2017
    It takes a lot for me to trust someone. Everyone is out for themselves. I've only met a handful of people throughout my life that I can 100% trust.

    Can't trust females really. Just when i think I can i am reminded why it is best not to.
     
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  12. Fire Squad
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    Sep 21, 2017
    It's usually a process of levels to go through, depending on the person--some are an open book and others are far more reserved.

    Myself? Much like my esteemed colleague @Deadpool said, I like to take awhile before I can legitimately trust someone. It's essential in a work-place since the last thing you want your co-workers finding out is something close and personal to you.
     
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  14. Caslon
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    depends on what u mean w trust

    ill try to understand ppl first, and then when i know i can count on them for a certain skill or service, then i trust them on that accord. some stuff i wont trust them with, and some things ill just trust no1 on

    like its not black/white as if i either share everything w them and can rely on them for anything or not trust them at all
     
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  15. Michael Myers
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    Yeah same. I have a few people I trust fully, but also a bunch of really close friends I go out with like every week, but would never tell personal stuff.
     
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  17. Michael Myers
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    Trust, like tell personal stuff, trust they got your back when it comes down to it, they dont let u down.. can be viewed in different ways of course
     
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    People always tell me they barely know something about me because I tend to tell very little about my personal life. Based on that I'd say not quickly at all lol
     
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  20. Caslon
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    ye well theres other types of trust, like trust in business partners and associates. Theres some i could trust a 10 000$ project with, but not even 8$ in cash

    if u strictly mean emotional support & drama then count me out
     
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