Serious I have a weird stalker

Started by Rodamon, Jun 9, 2021, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Rodamon
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    Jun 9, 2021
    Hi guys!

    Most would not know, but I been making music for years. I discovered yesterday that there is some weird guy from my area doing some meme shitposting almost always about me. Guy was also commenting me on Youtube couple months ago and I blocked him because I already thought he was a creep. Later he followed me with some weird edgy IG account and was commenting on my posts like a fan, mentioning my songs and all.. But it always came off as strange how he did it.

    Yesterday I had a like from another page, seemed unrelated. Turns out he has been making weird edgy shitpost about me for almost two months. Bear in mind I have less than 800 followers in IG, wtf.

    Easily I got his real name, Facebook, and the stupid f--- had his cell number and email in his meme account as contact. I called him with a private number many times until he picked up and pretended to be some american gangsta rapper or some s---, he awkwardly mumbled some bs and said "you want beef?" and hung up.

    I blocked him and reported him, and all my friends tell me to ignore him. For now IG keeps his account. It is honestly surreal and upsetting, and a part of me really want to find him in person.

    Any advice on how to act? My concern is that this guy will keep doing this s--- for a long time if I do not stop him somehow. I do not mind some memes making fun of me or praising me or whatever, but really some of them are just creepy.
     
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  2. BIGFOOT
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    Jun 9, 2021
    What I would do is: beat the s--- outta him. Only way he will stop I’m afraid. Doubt the police will do anything at all.
     
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  3. Rodamon
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    I am not violent but i had this urge when i found out about him. I know the city his from (1 hr from mine) what school he attended, and he does not look tough honestly... do not know his real address tho. Anyway, again, I am not used to get into fights but if he escalates it.. i dont know
     
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  4. BIGFOOT
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    I see… maybe you could get a solicitor/lawyer, and get him done for deformation. Will cost you money though. If it was me, I’d make him stop.

    People can be so pathetic it’s sad.
     
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  5. 902fre
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    902fre wu-tang forever

    Jun 9, 2021
    Just let him be. It’s not worth the time or energy.
     
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  6. Rodamon
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    for now the f---er erased some posts he made about me, the most upsetting ones id say, but today he posted twice about me again. I guess i will lay low for now lets see if IG just closes his account.
    Imo, he is some 20 smthng loser who tries to make edgy trap memes or some s---, actually some are praising my songs but you can not tell if he is being ironic. Even if its all a big laugh to him, i think you have to be f----- in the head to go that far, especially for a nobody like myself. It is so surreal it is even funny.
     
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  7. Captain Awesome AKA Papa
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    Captain Awesome AKA Papa sxn80 Emily Gilmore

    Jun 9, 2021
    whats he even saying about you? Agree with @902fre it’s def unsettling but not worth it. U don’t know how damaged dudes like that will react. Maybe just keep reporting his account

    bigger picture - want to listen to ur music! Pls post. It’s apparently got quite the buzz :)
     
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  8. Rodamon
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    yeah for now i do not want to make a wrong move and provoke a weirdo, but i am trying to know who he is and what he wants, i am reaching some people that may know him

    my music well, it is diverse haha, but it is mostly in my language Catalan, not sure you'd be interested!
     
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  9. Rodamon
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    oh and what he is saying.. i do not even know how to explain it, really. He does some very weird memes/ posts using my pics, videos or songs
     
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    needs a pic to assess the situation
     
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  11. Worm
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    Worm Big Perm Big Worm

    Jun 9, 2021
    @Ordinary Joel will whack him if you let him like 100 of your posts
     
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  12. attila
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    I’ve encountered some creepy f--- before I just didn’t reply, it was almost to a point where I almost wanted to hang it up/ no pun intended
     
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  13. Tone Riggz
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    Tone Riggz There's No Cure For Being A C*nt

    Jun 9, 2021
    This sounds like the plot of a Spanish mini series that HBO Max has the rights to.
     
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  14. Rodamon
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    Jun 10, 2021 at 3:35 AM
    I wish man, i really think it is surreal. One of the good things of being unknown should be to avoid assholes like that one
     
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  15. SKUX GOD
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    Jun 10, 2021 at 5:22 AM
    Do what @SHUDEYE would do. Hunt him down and give him a good a--- f---ing.
     
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  16. Rodamon
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    Jun 10, 2021 at 5:46 AM
    thanks everyone, deep inside i know this is the right answer, and i try to not let me phase me but h---, it is not easy.
     
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  17. Marsh
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    Marsh I'm still ride or die for the squad

    Jun 10, 2021 at 8:01 AM
    Might even be some dude you know in real life with too much free time on some MTV Catfish s---. I would be pretty curious to find out who he really is.
     
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  18. SHUDEYE
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    SHUDEYE Kerser is the sickest.

    Jun 10, 2021 at 8:07 AM
    Yeah, just having a quick read of the situation it's pretty clear f---ing him in the a--- is the only solution. Again, it's not a gay thing it's just a disciplinary measure.
     
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  19. Rodamon
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    Jun 10, 2021 at 10:13 AM
    as I said, I found out who he is but i dont think I know him personally. I am super tempted to also troll him back with his pictures, his phone number.. but there is a chance that this weirdo strikes back with more intensity, so i am not sure it is worth the try
     
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  20. Ricky
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    Ricky LAST RODEO

    Jun 10, 2021 at 10:38 AM
    Beat his a--- or f--- his a---, definietly one of those.
     
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