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LasiK break up 2015 :(

Started by LasiK, Sep 29, 2015, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. LasiK
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    LasiK d-mn fine coffee

    Sep 29, 2015
    I met a girl in august 2013, a month before i started grade 12. we hit it off and started dating pretty quickly. fast foward two years and things are great. sex life is great, communication is great, love life is great. we have never had a serious fight the entire time we've been together. lots of laughs and her family made me feel more at home than i've ever felt before.

    she's a few years younger than me, so when I was starting grade 12 she was beginning the 10th. relatively young, but we both seemed to have been thru some s--- and had a mutual understanding of what we wanted out of a relationship with each other.

    she started her senior year of high school at the beginning of the month and that's when things started changing. last night i got a call from her saying she felt as if the relationship was fizzling out. she wants to take a different direction with her life and the relationship was holding her back. completely blindsided me, but i like to think i have a fair understanding of life and respect an individuals desires and needs.

    been going thru a whirlwind of emotions since last night. i felt like she could've been the one i lasted years with due to how everything fell into place so effortlessly. unsure of the direction to take my life from here. i haven't felt this lost since i was 15 and my dad died.
     
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  2. RetiredAccount
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    RetiredAccount Big Time Stuntin Like My Daddy

    Sep 29, 2015
    I'm sorry LasiK
     
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  3. Packman
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    Packman

    Sep 29, 2015
    I feel for you. my girl and I have been through some things, and a couple months ago it all almost ended. Got my act together and we're doing great now.

    My only advice would be to stay positive and immerse yourself in the things you love. You'll be alright bro
     
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  4. gorealsteady
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    gorealsteady heal & create

    Sep 29, 2015
    Keep ya head up!
     
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    Oldboy

    Sep 29, 2015
    make beats now
     
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  6. Cyreides
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    Cyreides gfy

    Sep 29, 2015
    Don't know what to say man. I'm sorry.
     
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  7. Cyreides
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    Cyreides gfy

    Sep 29, 2015
    808s & LasiK
     
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  8. Lil Squeed
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    Lil Squeed French Montana Stan

    Sep 29, 2015
    It's gon be ok, ok, oh, it's gon be ok
     
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  9. Zep
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    Zep Certified Feminist

    Sep 29, 2015
    p----
     
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    Nick (;

    Sep 29, 2015
    BibleThump
     
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  11. Boos
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    Boos Nova Nation

    Sep 29, 2015
    Same s--- happened to me almost to a T. I'd tell you it gets better, but that's almost a lie. It took me almost 4 years to get back to normal. (I have really bad anxiety, and would worry about her being with other guys and etc)

    My one piece of advice would be to not play games about getting back together if she decides her feelings are mixed and sort of wants you, sort of doesn't. If that happens give her an ultimatum, either she's with you, or no more contact with you. If you allow her to be half with you then you'll just end up being worse off in the long run.
     
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  12. Ricky
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    Ricky FORUM PRIME WILL BE BACK

    Sep 29, 2015
    Been there, done that... It's difficult, but you'll get through it. Keep ya head up bro!
     
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  13. lil uzi vert stan
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    lil uzi vert stan

    Sep 29, 2015
    agreed, you have a lot of talent. you should keep pushing yourself, get your name out there.

    and re: breakup, ive always thought everyone needs to go through one bad breakup @LasiK. it matures you, lets you learn and decide what you rly want. this may be cliche, but manage/respect the pain bruh
     
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  14. Nori
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    Nori ☺ Deadpool is my deformed bousin☺

    Sep 29, 2015
     
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    Nori ☺ Deadpool is my deformed bousin☺

    Sep 29, 2015
    Otr though, sorry. If it's meant to be she'll come back. In the meantime just take a break and do you.
     
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  16. Raziel
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    Raziel Ice like Paul Wall but I can't take mine out

    Sep 29, 2015
    Take some time to heal and most importantly love yourself. It's easy to get lost in self pity and doubt. I spent probably 10 years of my life in misery bc of it.
     
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  17. Radeem
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    Radeem I listen to people smarter than me

    Sep 29, 2015
    Posting a hopsin song in a thread which is literally soaked in sorrow is like giving a gun to a man who has suicidal thoughts.

    wtf man

    Keep your head up Lasik. I'm sure things will get better soon. You just have to do what you love.
     
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  18. Narsh
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    Narsh

    Sep 29, 2015
    at least girls like you m8








    :wow5:
     
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  19. pluto✰
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    pluto✰ where the opioids?

    Sep 29, 2015
    how unexpected was this?

    & do you see what she meant by the relationship "fizzling out" or was that complete bs
     
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    pluto✰ where the opioids?

    Sep 29, 2015
    are you a virgin fr? me and @captain awesome gonna put up on a prostitute for u wen I come up to Boston
     
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