Serious Soon to be fiancée has less then 10 weeks to live, feel like killing myself

Started by Littlezy, Feb 21, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Littlezy
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    Littlezy SXN 80 FORUM GOAT AF, LOVE U GUYS

    Feb 21, 2017
    found out today she got less then 10 weeks and i feel like s--- honestly just wanna end it all
     
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  2. Clarity
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    Feb 21, 2017
    What happened?
     
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  3. Kon
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    Feb 21, 2017
    Honestly man before you even worry about yourself and what you're gonna do when she's gone, just enjoy these last 10 weeks with her and make em special.

    Sorry to hear though.
     
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  4. Littlezy
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    Littlezy SXN 80 FORUM GOAT AF, LOVE U GUYS

    Feb 21, 2017
    shes a type 1 diabetic and her blood pressure was going crazy af an we went to the doctor turns out several of her organs are failing
     
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  5. Copper
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    Feb 21, 2017
    Sorry to hear, dude.

    I fully support Kon's idea, though. Don't let her last weeks be sad ones. Take her out, have fun. Do what you can to enjoy what little time you have left together.
     
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  6. Clarity
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    Feb 21, 2017
    That's stupefyingly sad. The world is not a fair place at all.
     
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    Feb 21, 2017
    Jesus f---ing christ. I don't know what to say that's awful man I truly feel for you.
     
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  8. Fire Squad
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    Feb 21, 2017
    I'm absolutely heartbroken to see this, there is honestly no such thing as words that can make this all disappear.

    Do understand that every moment and thing we do in life has importance, treasure every second you can and make her time on here as happy as humanly possible.

    I had my life-long best friend pass away from brain cancer about a year ago, the whole process was h--- and makes you wonder why does s--- like this happen. All my thoughts and prayers are with you two m8 if there's anything any of us can do on this forum please don't hesistate to reach out to us
     
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    Feb 21, 2017
    f--- man... no words for this. Only advice I can give is make every second count!
     
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    Feb 21, 2017
    this. log off rtn. no time to waste
     
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  11. Ordinary Joel
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    Feb 21, 2017
    I echo everyone's sentiments here. Treasure every moment with her. This is heartbreaking stuff but leave no stone unturned.

    I'm hoping and praying for a miracle for the both of you.
     
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    Feb 21, 2017
    Dude, take her out, be together, enjoy.
    Go away from the forum, you have to be with her
    And remember, nothing is impossible...
     
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    Feb 21, 2017
    Just wanted to say the same thing.

    The world just isn't fair, go and make every second count. Make her have the time of her life.

    Really sorry for you both :emoji_slight_frown:
     
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    Cyreides gfy

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    Feb 21, 2017
    That's f----- up tho person I'm closet with is type 1 the fact that it exists is bs
     
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  16. cz1nonly
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    Feb 21, 2017
    Sorry to hear that

    Dont make any drastic decisions or actions while your emotions are extreme. Extreme emotional feelings do not last, they will subside. You gotta be strong, it will be super tough but you will find your way through it and find happiness again (as hard as that is for you to believe right now)

    Also remember the better you handle it, the better her life will be, and anyone else who loves her. They will find peace in seeing you not spiral out of control, same way you will feel so much better knowing her loved ones are under control with the situation.

    Keep your head up, and stay close to supportive people with positive energy to make you and her mood better in this tough process.

    Good luck!
     
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  18. paulye
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    Feb 21, 2017
    Sorry to hear that OP. Just be there for her these last 10 weeks.

    After that it might feel like the end of the world for you too, but it gets easier with time. Just don't do self-harm and maybe get depression medication or something (if necessary) so you have energy to find happiness and then when you can be happy naturally, you don't need the medication anymore. Therapy is good too, if it's free/very cheap.

    But right now be there for her and spend time together so you both can still be happy these days, at least momentarily.
     
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    Feb 22, 2017
    @Ordinary Joel Aye m8 I see u deleted my post ya cheeky kunt
     
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  20. SUPERHNDRXX
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    Feb 22, 2017
    bruh thats terrible. my thoughts with u brother. best of luck getting through this tough time
     
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