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Started by Dread or Alive, Oct 14, 2017, in Life Add to Reading List

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  1. Dread or Alive
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    Dread or Alive Kamikaze should've been released 3 years ago

    Oct 14, 2017
    Now before i start i know there are some dickheads who'll respond with sumn like 'nobody cares'. Please f--- off because this is some personal s--- and that's what i assume this section was for.


    So in essence my ex-girlfriend/girlfriend (at the same time i guess) gave me a surprise visit and we talk and get emotional and stuff but the evening hits and we both start getting horny. She was seducing me but at the same time pushing me away. Now common sense says not to have sex cause she's gonna regret it and hate me later, but she gave me blue balls and my nut was controlling my mind. I was weak.

    So yeah i end up doing it with her, but predictably she starts crying after and starts ignoring me.

    How do you normally deal with that? how do you fix that situation? When she's crying and curling up and ignoring everything you say.

    I mean i sorta got her attention by chasing after her when she eventually left and following her (barefooted in the g.d. night on the s-----y and wet road cause i left my slips and my shirt) and she started talking to me A LITTLE, but she was still clearly pissed at me and only spoke like 5 sentences on the 20 minute walk (2 of those telling me to leave her alone).


    So yeah i slightly lessened the blow by being persistent and inflicting self harm in the process (lots of tiny glass shards and stones in the d--- road), but my relationship with her which was already in a state of healing ended up being damaged and given that her parents (Well, parent cause Jamaican dads are sometimes non existent) already took her usual methods of communication away (it was already hard to get into contact with her) i'm not sure if i'll get to see her again in months without straight up going to her house (and her mom actually likes me but she's paranoid and crazy)

    TLDR Now i'm feeling like an idiot for making her cry (when it was obvious she would) cause i wanted to bust a nut.
     
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  2. Cunner
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    Cunner belter skelter

    Oct 14, 2017
    if u just turned 18 why are u operating like an 11y/o
     
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    Cunner belter skelter

    Oct 14, 2017
    like u made it 18 years of life w/o realising shes a wasteman

    but u made this thread

    maybe ur right for eachother, get your girl op
     
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  4. attila
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    Oct 14, 2017
    Girls are normally like that after sex. Start crying for no apparent reason
     
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    Cunner belter skelter

    Oct 14, 2017
    what kind of girls are you guys hanging out with :dead:
     
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  6. attila
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    attila

    Oct 14, 2017
    b------s, apparently
     
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  7. Bourbon Ben
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    Bourbon Ben Mad pooper

    Oct 14, 2017
    i'm f---in hollering
     
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  8. sheldon
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    Oct 14, 2017
    :currydead::currydead::currydead:
     
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  9. Slyk
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    Slyk God made a prophet.

    Oct 14, 2017
    added "serious" prefix.

    ...i'm missing why she was crying? regret? assuming you didn't go Nelly on her, then that's on her. if that's normal for her, then ya might wanna take a step back and re-evaluate the relationship.
     
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  10. Lucy
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    Lucy #1

    Oct 14, 2017
    sounds like r--- tbh
     
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  11. King of Kings
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    King of Kings Who Dey

    Oct 14, 2017
    she's prolly crying cause it's hard to get pleasure out of your 3 inch d-ck.
     
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    Dread or Alive Kamikaze should've been released 3 years ago

    Oct 14, 2017
    Okay i didn't really want to go into this but i guess it wouldn't hurt.

    You see she's in a situation where her family found out that she had an affair with some teacher (before she was with me) and they kinda made a mess of the situation. Plus she's feeling bad about the time she cheated on me.

    She has a pretty f----- up past.
     
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    Dread or Alive Kamikaze should've been released 3 years ago

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    It's not though. it's not like the first time we've been grinding. We've been at it for a while and we've never had any problems.
     
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    Lucy #1

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    sheldon

    Oct 14, 2017
    :lmaooo:
     
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    Lucy #1

    Oct 14, 2017
    maybe you r---d her this time or something?
     
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    Dread or Alive Kamikaze should've been released 3 years ago

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    Bruh she not only literally asked for it, but she was the one who got me up by grabbing my d--- crotch for half an hour.
     
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    Lucy #1

    Oct 14, 2017
    so she was wearing the appropriate clothes?
     
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    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Oct 14, 2017
    word so ur a r--ist
     
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    Slyk God made a prophet.

    Oct 14, 2017
    sounds like she's just an emotional wreck right now. address the situation directly. if she flips, then leave it alone for a while and she'll come around eventaully. can't push on it after a first attempt to talk it out, else she'll get pushed away.
     
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