What are some "must haves" for a girl you date?

Started by Kate1819, Jan 25, 2019, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Kate1819
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    My last boyfriend was awful. I'm pretty d--- feminine in personality but I honestly haven't dabbled in relationships as much as other girls my age (18).

    So I'm curious, what things relating to personality MUST a girl have and what must they not have for you to be happy in the relationship?
     
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    they MUST have listened to the Carter 1 - 3
     
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    I have already failed :emoji_disappointed:
     
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    My gf needs to see this post asap
     
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    Honesty/Trustworthy
    Optimistic personality

    Must haves for me

    The opposite of those must not haves obviously (not trustworthy and being negative all the time)
     
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    I get that, but she can be vulnerable sometimes right? Like about her fears and such. Not getting to do that to my boyfriend would drive me nuts
     
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    So like for me with a guy, and this is just me personally not all girls agree, but for me they have to be: As smart or smarter than me, confident (I could be flexible with confidence though maybe) doing something with their life, not a d-ck or act like a bully or a f---ing sadist, and able to have actual meaningful conversations
     
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    Must be down to eat my a---
     
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    Smart, motivated, and loyal

    Everything else about her is just a bonus
     
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    Nah not what I mean. Vulnerable is not bad.. also would have contradicted w honesty.

    I meant that I know women that are literally negative all the time (like, a mindset)
     
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    I need someone who is clever enough to think for herself, and someone who can be honest with me. When I say that, i mean if something is wrong and I ask, they tell me. Being reserved about it is fine, as long as those walls eventually come down. Don't "expect" me to know whats up if you won't tell me. I'm not a mind-reader lmao

    We both just need to work as hard as each other to make it work basically
     
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    I feel as though ive seen enough to where if i could find someone as egotistical as me
    Someone with good music taste
    Not from where i grew up
    And someone who brings more to the table than f---ing me all the time then resorting to calling me a piece of s--- when i wanna be alone and actually has interests and stories/loves themselves with or without me
    That id be eternally happy with a partner

    But that also sounds like some build a female type s--- its just a wish
     
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    Jesus, this is one of the most annoying type of girls
     
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    must be into online forums and be a big fan of eminem. Also must be able to split addys with me when we chilling:emoji_blush:
     
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    Oh boy lol

    I take capsules not tablets so sorry (:
     
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    LMAO
     
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  18. Kate1819
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    One of the things I learned very early on is I'm going to have to make it very very very clear to a guy when I want them to react to how Im feeling because if I don't they're too socially r-----ed to get it lol. Me not having to tell them would be cute but that's unrealistic
     
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    Thicc booty, Thicc thighs
     
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    I was thinking about this and it's like I'm always low af on Addy it's a pain in the a--- to get so idk if I could share anyway lol.

    My dream is to fall in love with a rich man who can buy me as much addy as I want lmao

    I'm kidding obviously
     
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