what do you consider your worst \ best traits?

Started by Amarett, Sep 27, 2018, in Life Add to Reading List

  1. Amarett
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    Amarett Inside You

    Sep 27, 2018
    Not limited to one.

    Best : Forewardness ( much to my detriment) imo find it beneficial in being direct and honest as possible. No guess work. Friends know I wont sugarcoat.

    Worst : Impatience - at work the opposite is expected but I’m seething quite often lol


    Yours?
     
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  2. Johnny Guitar
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    Sep 27, 2018
    My worst trait is Self-deprecation. Even now - I was gonna write what my best trait is, but an inner voice in the back of my head was like "no one cares, you fuckstick" so I had to think twice about what I wrote or even if I should. It's a miserable thing to put up with on a daily basis, doubting your every action and having little self esteem. Sometimes overcoming it is easy, sometimes it's the hardest thing in the world. But people like me somehow get by, it's not hopeless.

    My best trait would probably be my creativity. I don't know if that classifies as a trait. I've always been good at creating art, music, visuals and so on. Every time I showcase something I've made to friends or family, everyone is blown away by how I am able to come up with it, but to me it just comes naturally, and I never understand what the big deal is.
    I do what feels right and it usually turns out great. It takes a lot of time and patience, especially since I'm somewhat of a perfectionist (Not always; Sometimes perfection comes at the expense of passion and then it's all pointless.)
    All in all, it's the one thing I am proud of about myself. Something that is a certainty.
     
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  3. Johnny Guitar
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    No one cares, you fuckstick.
     
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  4. Amarett
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    Amarett Inside You

    Sep 27, 2018
    Whilst showcasing your work do you struggle with self deprecation?
     
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  5. Johnny Guitar
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    Nah, there's no consequences there. No pressure.
    I just do what I love. It's like a safe haven for my personality when I'm in that state of mind.
     
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  6. Judas Black
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    Judas Black The Dark Vegan

    Sep 28, 2018
    Best: My eyes, I can cook, I'm in shape, I have great taste, Athletic

    Worst: I'm impatient, My temper, Anxiety & Depression problems, Trust Issues

    It's probably more in both categories but I'm just summarizing
     
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  7. Amarett
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    Amarett Inside You

    Sep 28, 2018
    Trust. Does this apply more with women?


    Trust is monumental. Tend to covet this in all aspects of my relationships / friendships.

    Impatience, temper, anxiety def go hand in hand. I too have a temper. Under most circumstances I can keep emotions in check. When I do blow up it’s usually short lived.
     
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  8. Judas Black
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    Judas Black The Dark Vegan

    Sep 28, 2018
    Yea, it pretty much applies to Women, friends, and family

    It's all good though, I'm pretty much used to it

    That's good you got your anxiety under control, for the most part, I used to be able to do it, until recently
     
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  9. Amarett
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    Amarett Inside You

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    You’re quite interesting. To overcome ( even temporarily) something as strong as self depreciation is quite a feat. You’ve two ends of a spectrum. Your creativity and what it brings forth will eventually overcome those feelings of self doubt in your everyday life.

    On a personal note.. over analyzing even the simplest things or concerning yourself with what others will think is futile. It only leads to doubtful actions in which leads to being angry at yourself.

    People are going to think/judge no matter what you do. Right or wrong. Outside of yourself and those you care for .. nothing else matters.

    Sorry to preach. Glad you posted :smile2:
     
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    Alchemist34 DO MY HEAD

    Sep 29, 2018
    Pros: Irl I’m a good listener and connect well with people especially woman not just sexually.

    Cons: these people are usually emotionally damaged and I can’t seem to form bonds with emotionally stable people. They bore me and I bore them

    Side note: I consider myself emotionally stable. I don’t have anger or anxiety issues or some haunting childhood trauma
     
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  11. RG9
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    RG9

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    Best traits: Amazing body, incredibly intelligent, diverse sense of humour, creative as f---, can learn new skills with ease, extremely focussed & goal-orientated...I could go on tbh but I don’t want to bore you all

    Worst trait: Compulsive lying
     
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  12. Amarett
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    Amarett Inside You

    Sep 29, 2018
    Brilliant

    Explains the bond with Squidge lol
     
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    icecube West Coast is the Best Coast

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    I know how you feel on the self deprivation thing man. Always gotta be the good guy and please as many people as possible yeah?
    I would love to see some of your art! Any chance you could upload some pieces?
     
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  14. icecube
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    icecube West Coast is the Best Coast

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    My best traits:
    Resilience and commitment to a goal

    My worst traits:
    I say too much what I think people want to hear rather than what I actually think. Try to avoid conflict too much.
     
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  15. Charlie Work
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    Charlie Work Level 5 Goblin

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    Best
    My curiosity

    Worst
    Being white
     
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    Charlie Work Level 5 Goblin

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    Best
    My curiosity

    Worst
    Being white
     
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    That's too bad. I was going to post a very pertinent article to help you reconsider your worst trait, but then I realized you're probably not being completely honest about your best trait since intellectual curiosity is a real rarity these days. So never mind. Good luck with that buddy.
     
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    Michael Myers The Boogeyman Is Coming

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    Best

    - Putting things in perspective/being able to see situations from different angles
    - Good listener

    Worst

    - Impatience
    - not very emotional

    Could go on for both sides tbh

    I like u but ur such a f---ing cornball sometimes lmao
     
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  19. SWERVO
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    Sep 30, 2018
    shut the f--- up
     
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  20. DetroitDGAF
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    Oct 3, 2018
    Best: Patience


    Worst: legit hypochondriac
     
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    Amarett Inside You

    Oct 9, 2018
    Hypochondriac

    Legit .. what was it that convinced you without a doubt?

    Do you obsess easily over the simplest things? Also, do you consult doctors or self diagnose via online?

    Being a nurse you run into this quite a bit. Quite curious.
     
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